How to turn her on, make her feel sexual with you. 3 tips to up your chance of getting her in bed with you at the end of the night.
If you don't move things to the next stage you are going to find yourself in the worst place known to man: the Friend Zone. We've all been there, and it sucks. Without sexual tension, all your careful preparation is going to be worth nothing - the girl will see you as a friend or, worse, a provider, rather than a lover.
To move things onto a sexual footing with the girl, you need to move smoothly. But what does that mean? Don't suddenly lunge in for a kiss or a grope. I've perfected my technique for doing this and I'm going to give you a flavour of it today. Here's how I escalate things smoothly:
1. Don't Talk To Her Like She's Your Friend
If you talk to her about petty problems or just stick to fluff and small talk, you won't give yourself any way to introduce sexual tension. You create sexual tension by using conversations which challenge or tease her or makes her feel emotions. It's a really good tip to challenge her to prove herself to you - you want to put yourself into the frame of being the prize, and requiring her to jump through your hoops rather than the other way around. She should feel that she should be trying to win your approval.
Teasing her is a great way to escalate things to a sexual plateau. Anything where she is playfully hitting you and laughing at the same time is excellent - a very strong sign. And make her feel emotions. Make her talk about her passions, things she desires, and times when she's been in love.
2. Touch Her In The Right Way
Touching is a PUA's secret weapon. It's lethal and you need to know how to use it appropriately. You need to know how to use it properly, too - a friend will touch her on the arm when they are talking, she'll hug her, she'll kiss on the cheek when they meet. If you do these things and expect to make her feel something it probably isn't going to work. You need to touch her in a different way. There are two ways to escalate touching - sexual touching and playful touching. Playful touching includes things like tickling her, poking her, play-fighting, picking her up, and bumping against her as you walk. She will feel pretty safe with this but it will still creates some sexual tension.
Sexual escalation is more effective because it is less ambiguous: hold her hand (use an excuse of looking at her rings or bracelets or nails if you need to); put your arm around her, touch her hair (likewise, use an excuse). These things are things that lovers do, and friends don't. You'll need to use a combination of these touches to shift out of the friend zone.
3. Be Seductive
By now you should know what to talk about and how to touch her, but you're missing an important piece of the puzzle. You need to act in a seductive manner. Someone acting like her friend won't be able to encourage her to think sexual thoughts. You need to prompt her. The elements to focus on are:
* You need to hold strong eye contact.
* You should slow down your speech and deepen your voice.
* You should look at her like you want her.
* Look at her lips and leave pauses where you just look at each other. If she's comfortable with that or if she looks at you in a seductive fashion, it's on! Go for it.
If you remember to follow this advice you'll ensure that the girl you are targeting she's you as a sexual person. You'll have a much better idea of when you can kiss a girl and let her know that you are interested. Most importantly, you'll know how to avoid the Friend Zone. Drop me a line if you'd like me to clarify any of this advice and remember that you'll get a full, in-depth training experience on one of our brilliant bootcamps. They are great fun, you'll meet some great guys (and girls!) and I personally guarantee that you'll leave with a huge improvement in your PUA abilities. That guarantee isn't just an empty promise, either - you can have your money back in the hugely unlikely event that you're not satisfied.
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Until next time,
Gambler.
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Dating Tips to avoid Friend Zone, how to escalate and be intimate on a date simple ways.
Tips to avoid Friend Zone, how to escalate and be intimate on a date simple ways. Dating Tips and Advice for men.
Lots of guys sadly can open, date, but have no idea how to break away from the FRIEND ZONE. In other words, thy simply doesn't know how to get physically intimate or sexual escalate. You have to remember that as men have intimacy need, so does women and you have to know how to get there. It's great to be men.
I always like to pass along the best of what I find.
Big Send turned me onto Ideagasms a couple months back. They put an interesting twist on seduction, as their founder, Stephane is into some new age ideas… He incorporates a lot of the principles of yoga and meditation and incorporates them into his personal style. His stuff won’t be for everyone, but I thought I would give you a taste of his writing.
This is an article he wrote in response to a question he was asked about “how to create a sexual vibe?”
How to Escalate Physically with Women by Stephane
Don’t waste your time trying to convey a “Sexual Vibe” because you’ll be seen as creepy.
Escalation, don’t think of it as a “sexual vibe”, that could place weird unnecessary pressures on yourself for no reason…
Once you discover than you like a girl, and she likes you, just start being CUDDLY with her, and hugging her whenever
she says something good, placing her on your lap, saying, “C’mere!” and pulling her into you, and so on.
It’ll then take care of itself.
My favorite “escalation” move is to whisper things into a girls ear. Like really softly, slowly, so it makes her spine tingle.
“Oh, you LIKE… the Dodgers.. better… than the Rangers…”
You can talk about ANYTHING if you whisper it her ear.
Watch girls go INSANE at this.
Their back will arch, they’ll giggle like crazy, they’ll have goosebumps, and the clitty will tingle.
Try it, you’ll like it and so will the women in your life.
Many Blessings,
Stephane
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