How to be Confidence, comfortable in your own skin make you more attractive to any woman.

How to be Confidence, comfortable in your own skin make you more attractive to any woman. Seduction and dating tips for men.

Comfort in Your Own Skin
So, you look confident from a distance (and most guys don’t!), you seem confident when you are talking to her. So what does she do? She tests you out. She challenges you, shit tests you, and sees how you will react. She might ask you why you are wearing those shoes, or if you are a player, or why you don’t go to the gym. And the test to see if you are internally confident or comfortable in your own skin is how you react. This should start to happen once she is somewhat committed to the interaction and wants to find out if you are the man for her. This kind of testing will continue and to measure up you will need to display various types of confidence including confidence physically escalating and sexual confidence.

Example: A guy who consistently gets with hot girls, and is comfortable with who he is will be un-reactive and unemotional in the face of tests. To get to this point you have to a bit of work. I have a theory that someone is shy because they are worried about exposing their weaknesses to others. They are scared of being seen as ugly, having a silly voice, being poor, or whatever else. So they say less and do less so that they aren’t found out. Someone that is content will not be shy to put themselves out there and won’t react as much if you test him.

How to get there: To get to this point, perform the following exercise:Write down each of your weak points. The things about yourself that you are not happy with. Next to each, write an action you can take to help. It might fix the issue 100% or maybe just 20%, but the act of improving your situation and even having a plan for improving your situation will immediately impact your confidence and self-esteem positively. Earlier on in my book, I talk about how I did this and I can say that it was a massive factor in me becoming the confident person I am today. Don’t get me wrong, I still have things that I’m not entirely satisfied with but they are much smaller and fewer than they used to be.

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Be Confident, Comfortable around any attractive woman, key to make you more desirable

Be Confident, Comfortable around any attractive woman, key to make you more desirable and attractive. Seduction tips for men.

Who is she drawn to? Guys with good body language could be one answer. Guys who are attractive could be another. A better answer is: Guys who look confident. What determines if a guy looks confident in a night club. It’s very easy…he feels COMFORTABLE, need no approval, and could not careless.

Comfortable Interacting with Beautiful Women
So, she’s seen you and judged you as confident from a distance. As long as you don’t make any of the eye contact mistakes (breaking eye contact downwards or generally being uncomfortable with it), you’ll be fine all the way up to the actual approach. How does she decide if you are still a confident man when you are actually talking to her?


The next stage is appearing comfortable in conversation. Would a beautiful girl ever be attracted to a man who isn’t confident when he is interacting with her? How would this ever be attractive? Okay, well maybe in 2% of cases where she thinks you are “cute”. But 2% of cases isn’t any kind of game apart from the numbers game. So, you need to be comfortable talking to women.

Example: Guys that own model agencies, work in strip clubs, or manage a restaurant with hot waitresses get laid. One of the major reasons is that they are desensitised to interacting with beautiful women and so are comfortable around them. Someone who has worked for a model agency for 2 years will not be shaking, sweating, breaking eye contact, or otherwise looking nervous and uncomfortable if he meets another beautiful woman. She will unconsciously or consciously know that her beauty doesn’t phase him and this will mean he isn’t viewed as a lower life form like the other guys that obviously are very affected by her looks.

How to get there: Go to places with a high concentration of very beautiful girls. Places like strip clubs, exclusive department stores, high-end clubs, and countries like Latvia. In these situations set an achievable goal which will be to open and leave. Have your opener ready and your escape line ready (in the strip club this isn’t necessary since they open you). Desensitise yourself to their looks, get comfortable holding eye contact, keep your composure. Gain experience and realise they aren’t so different or difficult to talk to. What this will mean is that these women start seeing you as confident in the way you interact with them because you are comfortable which will greatly increase your chances of building attraction and closing them.

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How to get confident in approching woman, ask her phone number.

How to get confident in approching woman, ask her phone number. Seduction and dating advice for men.

Now, let's talk about confidence...

The 3 Cs of confidence
If you look in a book shop, you'll find plenty of books on confidence. Lots of people read them, but when it comes to it, how many people are actually perceived as confident by women in a pick up situation? Let's take that perspective. We all know that women want a confident guy. That wasn't much help to me when I was growing up, I knew what they wanted but didn't know how to give it to them. It needed it to be broken down in a little more detail. That's what I'm going to do right now. We are going to look at this from the perspective of an attractive woman in a bar or night club.She's looking around the room and she is making a judgement of whether the guys look confident or not. Who is she drawn to? Guys with good body language could be one answer. Guys who are attractive could be another. A better answer is: Guys who look confident. What determines if a guy looks confident in a night club. It's very easy...he looks COMFORTABLE. That is why the first C of Confidence is....

Comfort in the Environment
It is impossible to look confident if you are uncomfortable and it is impossible to look unconfident if you are comfortable. Therefore there is 100% overlap
Examples: It is impossible to look confident if you are uncomfortable and it is impossible to look unconfident if you are comfortable. Therefore there is 100% overlap. The barman, DJ, and bouncers and known to do very well with women. They are the most comfortable guys in the place because they are there every night and the environment can't phase them anymore. Let's get something clear - the barmen are not high status guys. The other guys in the club could be millionaire business men wearing $10,000 suits and buying bottles of Crystal. The barmen earn very low wages, and are not successful high status guys in any way. It's purely that they look comfortable. There is no other secret to it.

How to get there: The pick up environment where you will normally show a lack of confidence at first glance is the club. People don't often feel nervous when they are walking down the street or shopping. However, in a club, the pressure is so much more intense, and this is even more of a problem with high-end venues. What we need to do in this case is simple de-sensitisation. Pick a club and a day of the week and go there. Go with friends or on your own. Your mission is not to talk to anyone or do any gaming, but purely to become comfortable in the environment. Learn the layout, start to see familiar faces, you can even have some casual conversations with staff or people that are close by.

The key thing to do is to get comfortable and start treating the place like you do your own house. Sit or stand comfortably in a low-energy, chilled-out way or genuinely enjoy the music and move around without caring what others think or being too much "in your head". Those are the only two modes of behaviour in the club. Nothing in between will look comfortable. If you are trying to look like you enjoy the music by tapping a foot out of rhythm or nodding your head because you think you should you won't look right When you first go out, be very observant, notice the guys that look comfortable and the ones that don't. See things from the woman's point of view.By removing the pressure of the need to pick up or talk to women, you can start to enjoy the environment and create positive associations with it, rather than viewing it as a high-pressure place where you MUST game. Now that you have the first C of confidence.

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10 steps To Recover From A Breakup easy, dating and seduction tips for men.

10 steps To Recover From A Breakup easy, dating and seduction tips for men.

Here are some tips on how to recover from a breakup.

1) Cut All Contact

No matter you’re moving on or trying to get your
ex back (see www.reverseyourbreakup.com), it is very important
that you CUT ALL CONTACT with your ex.

This will help rebuild your confidence so that
you can move on.

2) Workout

Working out at the gym will help you get your
ex off your mind. The endorphins released during your
workouts will make you a happier person. The body you get
from working out will also make you a more confident
person.

3) See Your Friends

Remember all the friends that you’ve ditched
just to hang out with your ex? Start hanging out with them
again! Go hang out with them and let them lift you up!

4) Meet New Friends

You should also meet as many NEW friends as
possible while you’re single again. Being sociable is
one of the best ways to meet members of the opposite sex.

Even if you don’t want to start dating again
yet, meeting new people will help you get your mind off
your ex.

5) Spend Time With Family

Spending time with family is a good way to
“recharge” your energy while you’re single.

6) Find New hobbies

Spend some time on a new hobby or two while
you’re single. Besides taking your mind off your ex,
developing your passion for different hobbies or
subjects will definitely make you a more interesting
and well-rounded person.

Plus, chances are you will be able to meet men
or women who enjoy the same hobbies as you do.

7) Education and Self-Improvement

Take a few college classes and buy a few
self-improvement programs. You can NEVER spend
too much time or money on your self-education.

8) Go After Your Dreams
Ambition is the most powerful aphrodisiac.
Setting a long term goal will definitely help lift
you out of your blues.

9) See Other People
See other people casually. This will help
you build up your confidence again. You don’t have to
get into another long-term relationship right away…but
at least start seeing other people!

10) Improve Your Dating Skills:

Lastly, you should improve your dating skills
while you are single. You want to make sure you don’t
repeat whatever mistakes you made last time with your ex.

Remember: If you keep on doing the same things,
you’re going to keep getting the same results. I have
seen too many “stubborn” people bump into the SAME walls
OVER AND OVER with every person they date.


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How to get you ex girlfriend back, dating and seduction tip for men.

How to get you ex girlfriend back, dating and seduction tip for men.
I believe in stead of the question above which to me is not hard to answer and show you any tips and techniqu to get her back instantly! But really ask yourself, "Should You Get Your Ex Back?"

Well…it depends…

If you are thinking about getting your ex back,
the first thing you should think about is why you guys
broke up in the first place, as in if it was a character
or an attraction issue. If it’s just an attraction or
communication issue, then by all means try to raise the
attraction and save your relationship.

But if you guys had broken up because of relationship
drama, such as if you or your ex had too much emotional
baggage to be involved with a romantic relationship, then
I’d recommend against getting back together. If it was
you who had character problems, then fix yourself first
and then think about getting back together. If it was your
ex who had character problems, then be glad that the
relationship is over and don’t even think about getting
back together.

This will require an objective review of your
ex’s and your own character. If you’re still too emotional
to have clear judgment, then here’s a simple test: Think
about whether your close friends and family hate your ex
do. If they do, chances are, there’s something wrong with
your ex that you don’t see.

You should also think about how compatible you
actually are with your ex. If it’s “just too hard” for
you guys to be together, maybe you both would be better off
being with someone who’d create less drama.

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What If You Have Cheated On Your Girlfriend but still want to save the relationship if she finds out. Dating and seduction tip for men.

What If You Have Cheated On Your Girlfriend but still want to save the relationship if she finds out. Dating and seduction tip for men. Well...it's common for guys are can attracted many women to have this problems.

Today I’m going to talk about what
you should do to save your relationship
if you have cheated on your girlfriend.

Before we begin, I need to point
out that I am 100% against cheating. If
you’ve both aware that you’re only seeing
each other casually, fine. But if you’re
actually in a long-term relationship, then
you should not cheat.

Here’s my view: Basically, if you
have cheated on your girlfriend you should
expect the worst and prepare to lose your
relationship. If your partner confronts you
about it, then you should confess the truth
for sure. As for confessing when your partner
does not know, it’s really up to you. Telling
your partner will definitely cause them a lot
of pain on their end. But at the same time,
not telling them may allow the guilt to build
up on your end and that can hurt the relationship
too. I’ll leave the decision to you.

If you do choose to confess, then
apologize sincerely and let them know that
you are ready for them to dump you. (But make
it clear that you won’t be going to the other
party you’ve been cheating with.) This is a
bit of reverse psychology. Since the “worst”
punishment they can give you is to break up
with you, if you offer it because you think
you deserve it, then they may just decide to
work on the relationship after all. (I am not
advocating game-playing here. This is for
saving a relationship and building a future
with someone you love, not playing someone
or stringing two lovers along. Do NOT abuse
this technique!)

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What If A Woman Is Only Attracted To Jerks, dating and seduction tips for men.

What If A Woman Is Only Attracted To Jerks, dating and seduction tips for men.

Do you know women who seem to be “only”
attracted to jerks? (Come on now, I am sure everybody
knows at least a couple.)

Today I have a piece of golden advice for
dating such women:

Don’t do it!

If a one-night stand or a short-term relationship
is all that you’re looking for, well, I’m not going to
stop you. (Still, I want you to be VERY careful!)

But if you’re looking to start a long-term
relationship with a woman who has a long history of
dating jerks or the “abusive type”, then I urge you to
rethink.

Because the fact that she’s been attracted to
these guys is a sign that she may have deeper problems
than you think.

It is perfectly normal for a woman to be attracted
to a man who acts like a challenge.

It is also quite normal for a woman to feel attraction
for a jerk.

But a woman who keeps going back to dating jerks…
well…let’s just say that that is NOT normal.

It shows the woman LIKES being mistreated because
of some deeper psychological issues. (Usually it’s because
of low self-esteem, but there are other reasons as well.)

Dating a woman like this is like holding a time
bomb in your hands - you never know when she’s going to
blow up.

If you’re dating such a woman, feel free to send me
an email and I’ll yell at you.

As a “Smart Dater”, there’s absolutely no reason for
you to tolerate these “baggage women”. Date women who are
not good “to” you, but good FOR you instead!

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What If A Woman Tells You She Is Not Ready For A Relationship, How to get her? Dating and seduction tips for men.

What If A Woman Tells You She Is Not Ready For A Relationship, How to get her? Dating and seduction tips for men.

The truth is any woman are willing to be in the relationship ONLY IF she believe (believe...) she found the right man and want to keep him. How to be that man? You can be that man for every woman trust me.

When a woman tells you she sin’t ready for a relationship,
most of the time she really means one of the following three
statements:

1) “I am ready for a relationship - but not with you.”

Remember that a woman has to be attracted to you before
she will have a relationship with you. So if a woman turns you
down because she is “not ready”, you should ask yourself this:
“Is she really not ready, or does she just not want to give me
false hope?” Search your feelings, young Jedi. If you feel a
lot of pain, insecurity, or discomfort, chances are, she probably
doesn’t like you that much.

Remember: It doesn’t matter she recently got out of
a relationship. If she REALLY, REALLY, REALLY likes you, she
will want to be with you. It’s simple as that.

2) “I am attracted - just not enough.”

The second possibility is that she IS attracted to you,
but “not enough” to start a relationship yet. Now, here comes
the bad news. If that’s what she means, then it means you’ve
screwed up already by advancing too fast. Pull back IMMEDIATELY
and start focusing on building the attraction instead of trying
to “get serious” with her. The more you try to turn her into a
girlfriend before she’s attracted to you, the more you will
push her away.

3) “I am a party girl.”

The last possibility is that she is not ready for any
sort of relationship because she is a party girl.

If that’s the case, then don’t try to change her.
A party girl doth not a good girlfriend make. You’re going to
end up in a world of hurt in the long run.

With that said…

The truth is any woman are willing to be in the relationship ONLY IF she believe (believe...) she found the right man and want to keep him. How to be that man? You can be that man for every woman trust me. You will just have to learn how.

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Are You In An Abusive Relationship? How good is your relationship you are in? Dating and seduction tips for men.

Are You In An Abusive Relationship? How good is your relationship you are in? Dating and seduction tips for men.

Here are a couple of questions to ask yourself.

1) Has your girlfriend ever been sexually abused as a child?

2) Does your girlfriend blame you when she do something bad?
(As in it’s always “YOUR” fault.)

3) Is your girlfriend chronically angry or
depressed?

4) Is your girlfriend unpredictable?

5) Has your girlfriend ever abused you?

6) Does your girlfriend have double standards for your
behavior and their behavior?

7) Has your girlfriend ever tried to manipulate you?

8) Is your girlfriend incompetent in daily living skills?
(Loses job after jobs, etc.)

9) Does your girlfriend hang around a “bad” group of people?

10) Does your girlfriend exhibit any anti-social behavior?

If you have answered “yes” to any of these questions,
you should be extremely careful with your relationship. All
of these “symptoms”, except for number one - which is okay
if she has put it behind her or learned to manage her pain -
are deadly.

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How To Get Over Rejection

How To Get Over Rejection, dating and seduction tips for men.

Next time you are rejected by a woman, remember
this: the more you fail now, the more likely you will succeed
in the future.

In life, you’ll always lose some and win some. But
the more you lose, the more experience you’ll gain, which mean
the less likely you are going to repeat the same mistakes
again. (Unless don’t learn from your mistakes at all, in which
case you’re screwed until you start learning!)

No matter how badly you faily, as long as you’re
learning SOMETHING, then you’re getting more than what you
would have gotten had you not done anything at all.

As the old saying goes, “A failure is someone who
fails once, a successful person is someone who has failed
many times!”

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How to keep your girlfriend or getting her back: What If Your Girlfriends Wants To See Other People?

How to keep your girlfriend or getting her back: What If Your Girlfriends Wants To See Other People? Dating and seduction tips for men.

What does your girlfriend mean when she says you
should both see other people?

As a Smart Dater, it should only mean one thing:
her attraction for you has dropped so much that the
relationship is about to end.

A woman does not just wake up one day and want
to start seeing other people. Usually, when she wants
to see other men outside an existing relationship, it’s
because she wants to meet other men without feeling guilty
OR without facing complete rejection if a man rejects
her. (She will still have a guy at home to go home to.)

In other words, your girlfriend only wants to see other
guys because she’s not attracted to you anymore, but at
the same time, she wants to keep you around as a “backup”
in case her new boyfriend turns out to be a creep. In fact,
she may even see you as a “tool” to get new boyfriend jealous.

So what do you do when a woman wants to “see other
people”?

Well, honestly there’s not much you can do. If you
disagree, she will probably dump you right there
since the attraction is so low anyway.

Your best bet is to end the relationship right
there OR to agree to see other people too. But either way,
you want to actually start seeing other people and let
her know ALL about it. Show her that you ARE capable of
attracting other women and that you are NOT going to just
sit there and be her “backup plan.”

If she freaks out and begs for you to come back, good.
Otherwise, just move on. She’s not worth your time!

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How To Succeed In Approach, Pick up, Dating any woman By Giving Up

How To Succeed In Approach, Pick up, Dating any woman By Giving Up

Today I’m going to show you how you
can succeed in dating by giving up.

Just kidding. What I mean is today
I am going to ask you a very important
question:

What are you willing to give up
in order to date more women?

Great performers in any field often
have to give up certain things in order
to have what they have. Entrepreneurs have
to sacrifice personal time for work. Athletes
have to wake up at four in the morning every
morning to train. Scientists have to work
in the lab for hours every day.

So what do Smart Daters have to do?
Here are a few things I can think of:

1) They have to be willing to be friendly and
sociable.

2) They have to be willing to invest time
in their social lives.

3) They have to flirt with women.

4) They have to be willing to face rejection.

5) They have to practice their dating skills.

6) They have to live adventurous lives and have
great stories to tell.

7) They have to remain positive even when things
don’t look so good.

They have to have the discipline to not freak
out and start breaking dating rules.

9) They have to know how to choose their partners
wisely and stay away from women with excessive
baggage.

10) They have to live a healthy, balanced
lifestyle.

11) They have to treat dating only as ONE important
area of their lives. (Not neglect it or have no
life outside of it!)

12) They have to be willing to have an open mind
for new techniques and tactics.

13) They have to practice to think on their feet.

14) They have to raise their social proof.

15) They have to keep up-to-date on current
events and trends for the sake of having good
conversation topics.

16) They have to be social chameleons.

17) They have to have an interest in human psychology
and self-development.

18) They have to be strong enough to say “no” to
an attractive woman.

19) They have to groom and look after themselves.

20) They have to be strong leaders.

Are you willing to do all these things?

Even more importantly, what are you
willing to give up (example: a bit of sleep or
computer gaming time) to get these things?

Really think about it hard!

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How To Become More Comfortable With Asking Women Out

How To Become More Comfortable With Asking Women Out.

1) Choose an event or place according
to the requirements I gave you last
time. Basically, pick something that
is cool.

Examples:

- Upcoming party

- Upcoming concert

- Favorite “unknown” restaurant

- Some kind of an upcoming art event
or exhibition
(Especially if you are an expert on it)

2) Now approach 5 women every day. To talk
to these women…use the technique in the
next step.

3) Think of what you would say if you were
to chat up a male stranger at a bus stop
because you are bored. Use the same conversation
topics to start a conversation with the women
you approach. (In other words, focus on
starting “any” conversation with “any”
stranger, but not talk to women for the
sole reason of picking her up.)

4) Continue to make small talk.

5) Now, casually mention the event or place
that you have picked. Really promote it.
Talk about how cool it is and how excited
you are about going. Let the conversation
end naturally and get out of there.

That’s it for the exercise. In the
future, when you feel confident, you can
invite her to come to the event just when
you’re leaving. But for now, the point is to
get yourself used to “tempting” women with
stories.

Once you’re comfortable with this
exercise, you can start substituting the
cool events with movies or concerts that
are more common. For example, talk about
a cool trailer that you have been and mention
it casually that you would like to see the
movie. Repeat this exercise until you are
comfortable with asking the woman to see
it with you.

In time, you will see that asking
women out isn’t such a big deal!

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How To Argue Less In A Relationship, happily maintain and stay with the woman who's worth.

How To Argue Less In A Relationship, happily maintain and stay with the woman who's worth.

Today I am going to give you
an important key to having less arguments
in a relationship:

Instead of trying to win every
argument, learn to pick your battles
wisely!

You can’t always have your way in
a healthy relationship. If you always want
things your way no matter what, then take
a moment to do some serious thinking and
ask yourself if all the little things
that you are unwilling to be flexible
about are more important than your
relationship. If you think they are, then
do yourself a favor and end the
relationship before you waste any more time –
both your own and your partner’s.

Learn to prioritize your wants,
and learn to prioritize your partner’s
wants according to his or her desires
as well.

If something is low on your list
but high on your partner’s list, obviously
you should let your partner have it.

If something is high on your list
but low on your partner’s list, then take
it. Just make sure you return the favor
in the future!

Learning how to be flexible and
bend some times is much more important
than winning every confrontation and always
getting what you want - unless you want
a breakup or divorce too.

This tip may sound simple, but
to be actually able to do it requires
maturity and discipline - two things
that will definitely help keep your
relationship a healthy one!


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How to tease a woman and make her fall for you emotionally and sexually.

How to tease a woman and make her fall for you emotionally and sexually.
"How To Tease A Woman Sexually”

Here is a routine you can use to tease a woman
sexually. This routine is great for bringing back a lost
spark to a dying relationship.

1) Have a lot of fun on a date.

2) Take her back to her house or your house.

3) Instead of making out, engage in a deep conversation
with her.

4) Look at her in the eyes and say some romantic things
to her without breaking eye contact. Use the loving
gaze from my “Smart Dating Course.”

5) Tell her how hot she looks at that moment. Don’t
break the eye contact.

6) Tell her you can’t help but to take her right
there because she’s looking too beautiful. Once again.
do not break the eye contact.

7) If you are confident, then keep on talking about
how you are going to pleasure her all night…all without
breaking eye contact at all.

8) Lower your face to go for a kiss SLOWLY. Make sure
you make it SLOW.

9) Just when your lips are about to touch hers, pull
up and smile at her.

10) Then simply pull back and watch her go crazy.

If you do this right, she’s going to
want to make love to you all night long!


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How to make women comfortable around you and build rapport, seduction and dating advice for men.

How to make women comfortable around you and build rapport, seduction and dating advice for men.

“How To Make Women Comfortable Around You”

Yesterday we talked about how it is hard to
attract women when you’re sending out a dangerous vibe
to them. Today I’ll show you how to make women
comfortable around you.

1) Have social proof.

Go out with female friends. If a woman
sees you hanging out with cool people, she will think
you can’t be too freaky.

An alternative is to meet women at house parties.
If you are invited to the party, it means you are probably
not an axe murderer!

2) Advance slowly and only take small steps.

Take things slowly and fish for her “returning
signals” before advancing to the next step!

*Always* use the flirt test!

3) Act like a challenge.

If you act like a challenge and keep teasing a
woman, she will focus on whether she is good enough for
you or not, not whether you’re a freak or not.

4) Get rid of any creepy body language.

REALLY work on making your body language
smooth and relaxed. The more frigid you are, the more
of a “freak” you will appear to be!

5) Build deep rapport with women.

Build rapport with women before you really
flirt heavily with them. For some tips on how to talk
to women, check out my report on conversation at:

http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/conversation.pdf

6) Emphasize on things you have in common with the woman.
(Common friends, hometown, etc)

If you and the woman both know a mutual friend,
then talk about the mutual friend as a way of building
rapport. (By talk about, I don’t mean talking behind
his or her back…I mean saying GOOD THINGS about
the person and talking about funny little situations.)

7) Look physically clean and well-groomed

You will be surprised at how many “loners”
don’t follow this simple tip…

8) Leave her before the energy drops.

Just when the conversation is going well, leave
her wanting more!


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How to get woman's phone number easy way, Fool proof!

How to get woman's phone number easy way, Fool proof! Dating and seduction tips for men.

“How To Exchange Phone Numbers With A Woman”

Here’s how to exchange phone numbers with a woman.

1) Make sure you have pen and paper (even
business cards) on you before you go out.

2) Make eye contact with a woman and smile.

3) If she smiles back, approach her. (Or
use other approaches you have learned
from me.)

4) Make some small talk.

5) Flirt with her and build rapport.

6) Find something in common with her,

7) Suggest doing that something “in common” together.
(Important tip: Don’t ask. Suggest!)

Example: “We should do rock-climbing together
some time.)

8) Watch her reaction.

9) If the reaction is good, rip a piece of
paper or business card in half and write
your phone number on one half. Offer it to her
along with the other half and the pen.

10) Based on the psychological rule of
reciprocity, it is more likely for her to
give you her number in return. Of course,
if she doesn’t want to give it out at all,
this technique won’t help. But if she’s already
thinking about it, then this could mean the
difference between success and failure!


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Dealing with Bitchy women, three ways to tame her attitude. Seduction tips

Dealing with Bitchy women, three ways to tame her attitude. Seduction tips and pick up techniques.

“How To Deal With Bitchy Women”

As you go out there and approach many women,
you will see some women are naturally bitchy when they
talk to strangers. Here are three ways to deal with
these women.

1) The Guilt Trap

The first way is to make them feel bad by
acting disappointed at them. Let them know that
their behaviour is incongruent with their image
and how disappointed you are. Say something such
as, “You know, you looked like a nice person so
I thought you would be interested in making new
friends. But I guess not. Pleasure meeting ya.”
Then simply leave and go back to doing whatever
you were doing.

This will make the woman feel guilty without
lowering your own status. After all, you have turned
the table around and made it clear that SHE is the
one who’s being the loser. Sometimes, a woman will
approach you and apologize for being a bitch
before.

2) Lower Her Social Status

The second way is to make her feel bad
by asking her friends, “Does she always act like
a bitch to new people?” Then turn to her and use
the guilt trap in front of everyone. Before anyone
can answer, leave and go back to do whatever you
were doing.

By bringing other people into the picture,
you will lower her status in front of her own
group. She will feel bad in front of her friends,
and sometimes her friends may even come talk to
you after.

3) Slam Her Back

The last method is to make her feel bad
by being a bigger bitch than she is. Say something
such as “Well, just because your parents never
raised you properly doesn’t mean other people have
to take your bullshit. Have a nice evening.”

Note that even with this method, you should
still keep your cool and say something positive at the
end such as “Have a nice evening.” This will
keep your social status high and make it clear that
she’s the unreasonable one here.

Just remember the following: When you
stand up to a woman who always acts like a
bitch in front of men, two things may happen.
She’ll either submit to you and feel the need
to please you, or she’ll get even more bitchy
in order to see if you will back down. If she
chooses option one, good. If she chooses option
two, then just keep your cool but stay dominant
without giving in. She’ll probably go crazy
cause she can’t control you, but eventually
she’ll fall into place. (If she doesn’t, chances
are she may have serious character problems,
and you should avoid her as much as possible!)


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Get your posture right then approach, seduction tips for men

Get your posture right then approach, seduction tips for men
How to get a better and cool posture for men.

Here is a tip I discovered, which
might help some guys. Please feel free to
distribute it around if you want:
I’m fairly tall, and I was always
taller then my mates at school. This was
very useful for obvious reasons, but there
are also one or two disadvantages; I developed
a habit of bending down slightly when talking
to others. I also did it just to fit in more
with the crowd and not stick out. In discos I
felt very self conscious that people looked
at me for being taller then the rest.
The result is that today as an adult
I have bad posture. It takes a BIG extra
effort and a lot of energy for me to stand
perfectly straight. However, I found a trick
which helps me a lot: I imagine that I am
walking/standing beside/talking to a gorgeous
blonde who is slightly taller then I am. When
I do this right, BOY do I stand up straight!!
This came to me after talking to a very
attractive tall girl who was standing in
rollerblades, which gave her about 5 or 6
inches more. After 10 minutes I realised that
I was subconsciously standing as straight as
I could in order to be taller then she was…
what a challenge! I could feel it in my back
bone and muscles. Subconsciously I felt that
I just HAD to be taller then she was.

Since then I just imagine I am standing
or walking beside her.


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Easy Approaching woman tips, 10 Things To Remember. Seduction and dating tips.

Seduction and dating advice “10 Things To Remember When You Approach A Woman”

Here are 10 things to remember when you approach a woman:

1) Have a smile on your face. Not a nervous smile, but a
confident, charming smile. Have the smile even if the
woman is not looking at you. Having a genuine smile will
help give you more confidence as well as create a
good first impression.

2) Make eye contact if possible. It’s not always possible,
but when possible, do it.

3) Open up your body language. Think high and wide. Imagine
a string holding your head up at the top of your head.

4) Walk over casually. A mistake I see all the time is that
guys often walk too fast when they approach women. They
wait 10 minutes to get the courage to approach, and when
they finally do, they walk there quickly. This actually
raises the internal alarm in a woman’s mind. A casual
walk there is much better as it will make her feel more
at ease with you.

5) Be away of personal space. Make sure you don’t get too
close and invade her personal space at the beginning.

6) Don’t try to “act smooth.” In my experience, a lot
of guys actually put on an “act” as a way to protect
their inner ego. This way when they get rejected,
they can feel like the woman has rejected their “act”
instead of their actual selves. I know it takes a lot
more courage to be genuine, but really, while putting
on an act may help protect your ego in the short run,
it will damage your success in the long run.

7) Try to match her energy level. Make sure your energy
level is not too low or too high relative to hers.
If a woman has high energy, approach with low energy
and you will seem boring. If a woman has low energy and
you have too much energy when you approach, you will
make her feel alarmed.

8) If you’re approaching a woman who is with friends,
approach the whole group rather than her. If you
approach her alone, her friends will give you
resistance.

9) If you have no idea what to say, think about what
you would say if you were just chatting up a random
stranger and to get his or her attention. The point
of an opener is to start a conversation, and that’s it.
Don’t worry about creating attraction, etc. That comes
later.

10) Remember that you’re just trying to make friends.
Let go of your expectations and have fun. That’s the most
important thing to remember!

Ask her out easy ways, casually suggesting and bait, Dating and Seduction tips

Dating and Seduction tips: Casually suggesting a bait Ask her out easy ways.

“How To Use Temptation To Get A Date”

Here is a little routine you can
use to get a date.

1) Think of event or place that is ultra
cool.

Examples:

- Upcoming party

- Upcoming concert

- Favorite “unknown” restaurant

- Some kind of an upcoming art event
or exhibition
(Especially if you are an expert on it)

The only rule is that Whatever you
pick should be quite unique and not something
“everybody” is talking about.

2) Casually mention it to the woman during
a conversation. Talk about how great it’s going
to be, and then just switch to other topics.

3) Let her wonder why you are not inviting
her.

4) Use other techniques to continue building
rapport and displaying your great personality.

5) Just before you’re about to leave, bring it up
again and invite her casually. Make it a “By
the way, you should come to…” kind of
thing.

If you do this routine properly, the
woman will be more likely to say “yes” to
a casual first date. After all, it is much
more interesting than checking out the best
Indian restaurant in town or going to the
see a cool band than to “get coffee” or
“get together for lunch”!

Good luck,


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Seduction tips, Dealing with approach anxiety

Dealing with approach anxiety, Seduction tips and dating advice, some thought from Carlos Xumas

I used to be scared to death of talking to women.

I mean, I'd see an attractive woman that I wanted to meet, and
my mouth would go dry. My hands would get sweaty. My knees would
feel shaky. And my stomach would drop right out from inside me.

Oh, yeah, and the usual heartbeat that feels like a heavy metal
drum solo in my chest.

Not fun.

And even when I got past that feeling and started talking to women
every so often, I'd still had some general "weirdness" in my system
about going up to women I didn't know and just starting a conversation.

This was just approaching women in bars, and I knew somehow that I'd
have to open my game up to talk to women during the DAYTIME if I
really wanted to meet a special, quality woman.

Over the last 7 years that I've been offering advice to guys on
dating and at-tracting women, I've had to get really clever with
the techniques I create for guys to feel confident approaching women.

I mean, there was a time that I was teaching guys "in the field"
how to approach women, and I still wasn't sure HOW to help them get
over their individual fears of women.

What I discovered was that the individual fears were unimportant
if the guy was willing to just take some simple steps to "shortcut"
to a solution.

Because once you're doing what you want to do without all the
nervousness, you don't need to go into deep "therapy" to find out
why.

Once you're DOING it, the problem is solved.

So what I did was start to play some mental "head games" with
myself to see if there was a way I could get rid of the inner fears
and totally conquer this anxiety about walking up and
talking to strange women.

In just the last few months, I found a VERY simple formula, and it's
one I'm about to give to you to try out for yourself.

It's dead simple, and super easy to use.

It's based on the most reliable technique used for overcoming
fears and phobias called "acclimation."

So this might be the most important email you read... this week,
this month, or even this year.

But you've probably heard someone say that before, huh?

Well, I really believe this. And I think you need to know that I
mean it. I've just finished creating something SPECTACULAR that you
must know about.

And it's absolutely without cost. (Meaning it's F-R-E-E...)

I want to show you how to destroy your approach anxiety in 3 steps.

I've got a new training video up that you're going to want to see,
where I'll show you how to get rid of your approach anxiety.

It's my latest method for getting you past approach anxiety, and
it's a KILLER technique. It's going to be part of my new program
that I'm coming out with very soon on how to approach women during
the DAY.

My objective is to help you meet women anytime, and anywhere you go.

THEN it will TRULY be part of your Alpha Lifestyle. As you know, I
don't just teach stuff to get you successful with women. I teach
you what you need to win the bigger game of LIFE.

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Top mistakes that men make when approaching women

The top mistakes that men make when it comes to approaching women… and then I'd like to teach you STEP BY STEP how to overcome ALL of these mistakes… and create MASSIVE success for yourself with women.

Here are the biggest mistakes when it comes to approaching women:

MISTAKE #1: Not Knowing How To Deal
With Fear And Shyness

We are ALL afraid.

That's right. ALL of us are afraid.

In life, we all have fears… and it's up to each of us as individuals to either choose to overcome those fears… or choose to let those fears run our lives.

For most of us guys, we experience intense fear and shyness when it comes to APPROACHING women that we don't know.

Here's the part that's a “pain in the ass”: When you're experiencing fear and shyness, it feels like you're the ONLY ONE IN THE WORLD who has EVER felt this way.

The feeling can be SO intense, that it seems IMPOSSIBLE that anyone else could POSSIBLY have a “case” as bad as you. Know what I mean?

I laugh when I think about it, actually.

I have spent many, many hours in situations… looking at a woman that I'd like to approach… but just not being able to do it.

Then, later… after it's all over… I think BACK to the situation… and shake my head because I just couldn't figure out how to overcome my own FEAR… and just TALK TO HER.

The desperation that resulted from these situations was intense. It was embarrassing. It was demoralizing . It sucked.

As a man, one of the worst feelings you can have is that something is making you feel like LESS than a man. And this was one of those situations for me.

I'm kind of hard-headed sometimes. Maybe I like punishment more than others… or maybe I just like to beat my head against the wall longer than most.

In any event… I didn't give up.

Even though I was going through this experience over and over… of seeing a woman I wanted to meet… feeling fear and apprehension… not being able to get up the nerve to go talk to her… then thinking about it for hours (or days) after it happened… I just wouldn't let go.

I became determined to “crack the code” on this one.

Well, one of the big “ah ha!” moments I had was the SIMPLE act of learning that I WASN'T ALONE.

Just like it takes some “nerve” to approach a woman, it ALSO takes nerve to ADMIT when you're having challenges in life.

And one of the things I learned about my “fear of approaching women” was that instead of being “abnormal”, I was actually TYPICAL.

Imagine that.

Here I was thinking that I was emotionally retarded… and then I find out that MOST guys have this same issue… and it's just as intense for THEM as it is FOR ME!

Misery loves company… as they say. I guess that just learning I wasn't alone was enough to really encourage me.

But then I learned something even MORE important while I was learning how to overcome my own fears: I learned that MANY OTHER GUYS had figured out how to OVERCOME this “fear and shyness issue”… which led me to my next “ah ha!” moment:

IF THEY CAN DO IT, THEN SO CAN I.

And I'll tell you something right now: SO CAN YOU. And if you're open-minded and willing to do a little work on your part, then I'd like to show YOU how to do it…

MISTAKE #2: Expecting The Worst

I have spent a lot of years reading Psychology and “Self Help” books… and listening to audio programs… and going to seminars…

I've also spent a tremendous amount of time “testing out” the ideas that I've learned in these various books and programs.

As a result of all this “trying stuff out”, I've come to the realization that EXPECTATIONS play a very important part in RESULTS in life.

People who always expect bad things to happen… wind up having a lot of bad things happen to them.

People who only expect good things… wind up having a lot of good things happen.

Is this Voodoo? Am I talking about freaky New Age ideas that have no basis in reality of any kind?

No.

I've never tried Voodoo, by the way… but if you have, and it works, let me know. I'm always looking for new ideas that WORK!

OK, back to the point…

I believe that the REASON why expectations are so powerful has to do with the part of your mind that psychologists refer to as the “unconscious mind”. Some call it the “subconscious mind”.

This is the part of your mind that's “always on”… but it's working “behind the scenes”.

Have you ever been walking along… or driving… and you sensed danger out of the corner of your eye… and before you knew it, you INSTANTLY responded to avoid the danger?

Things like this happen to us all the time… but we don't really THINK about what's happening in moments like these.

The reality is that when we go through an experience like this, there are “miracles” happening inside of us.

In an instant, before we have time to “think” about what's happening, our entire mind and body have “taken over” and moved us out of the way of harm.

If you take just one aspect of one of these situations, the PHYSICAL MOVEMENTS, and examine it… you'll find that more is going on than “meets the eye”.

In order for your mind to perceive the danger, realize that it IS danger, figure out how to respond, then get the body to actually MOVE in away that gets you out of the path of danger… requires a MASSIVE amount of “computing power”.

Fortunately for you, all of the “computations” are being done outside of your “conscious” awareness.

But WHERE is it all being done? How is it that you “know” what to do… and you even DO it… before you “realize” what's going on?

It's all being done in this part of your mind that I'm talking about. It's all happening on the UNCONSCIOUS level.

Now, think about THIS for a minute:

Most men who have problems approaching women have one peculiar thing in common: They are all EXPECTING negative outcomes from the approach.

And they also have a SECOND thing in common: They don't CONSCIOUSLY REALIZE that all of their expectations are negative.

If you take time to ask, or you stop to think about how it happens for YOU, I think you'll realize that when you think about approaching a woman, your UNCONSCIOUS mind starts to INSTANTLY think about all the NEGATIVE things that might happen.

In fact, for most guys, this “negative expectation program” literally TAKES OVER… and they CAN'T EVEN IMAGINE a positive outcome.

This “negative expectation” thing is kind of a bitch, by the way.

It's painful… and it's not easy to change…

UNLESS, that is… you know HOW.

You've learned one of the most important pieces of the puzzle for changing: AWARENESS.

Now that you KNOW about it, you can start to AFFECT IT…

Now you need to learn some specific techniques to REVERSE this thinking… and begin to expect POSITIVE things to happen when you approach women…

MISTAKE #3: Making The WRONG First Impression

Another important think I learned about approaching women is actually something pretty OBVIOUS, when you think about it:

Attractive women are “approached”… one way or another… CONSTANTLY.

Women who are attractive are approached in a hundred different ways every day.

Sometimes it's a co-worker walking by her desk and smiling “too many times” a day…

Sometimes it's a guy holding a door open a little too long, just hoping to start a conversation…

Sometimes it's a random email from a guy she doesn't know telling her that he saw her picture online and thinks she's beautiful…

Sometimes it's a friend who keeps sharing his “feelings” for her…

And the more she's approached (both subtly and not so subtly), the more she develops a powerful “radar system” that alerts her to a man's intentions.

Most men don't realize that their lame attempts to get a woman's attention are HURTING them. They don't realize that the things they're doing are actually giving her a NEGATIVE impression… and making it so that it's almost IMPOSSIBLE for her to be attracted.

You've probably heard me say that “Women aren't attracted to Wussies!”.

It's true, by the way.

Let me ask you a couple of questions:

1) How many chances do you get to make a first impression on a woman?

2) What impression do most men give off when they approach a woman?

Right, the WUSSY impression.

And women have such a finely-tuned “Wussy Radar” system, that's I've actually given it a NAME… I call it WUSS-DAR.

If the impression you make on a woman is that you're a WUSSY, then it really doesn't MATTER if you've learned to overcome your fear of approaching her… because she's not going to feel any ATTRACTION for you ANYWAY.

You can train for ten years and become the fastest runner in the world… but if you start off the race running in the WRONG DIRECTION it's going to be pretty hard to WIN.

So remember: When you approach a woman, make sure the IMPRESSION she's getting is one that triggers ATTRACTION.

There are a lot of specific ways to create this impression, and I'll tell you some of them right now…

But REMEMBER: DON'T GIVE HER THE IMPRESSION THAT YOU'RE A WUSSY.

MISTAKE #4: Seeking Her Approval Or Acceptance

If I could go around the world, and take ALL of the situations that happened today where a man approached a woman that he was interested in dating… and then summarize and “condense” them into ONE “scene”, it would have an easy-to-recognize theme…

It would be a man who's nervous and shy… who is trying to FIRST get the woman to LIKE AND ACCEPT HIM.

For most guys, they have it in their mind that they need to get what psychologists call “approval”.

They think that the most important thing is that she LIKE him.

Here's what it looks like to the woman…

It's like a guy is walking up with a big sign on his forehead that reads: “I want you to think that I'm a nice, sweet, caring, considerate man… and I would do almost anything to make you like and accept me”.

And guess what?

IT DOESN'T WORK.

It never works.

Well, let me correct myself…

You will never win the lottery.

You MIGHT actually win the lottery… but you probably won't.

And you MIGHT get a woman to feel attracted to her by working to get her attention and approval…

But you probably won't.

I think I've made my point.

Using the “kiss her ass and hope she likes me” strategy is a loser. It does not trigger attraction. It never will.

Hugh Hefner and Brad Pitt will probably write to me to disagree… and then I'll stand corrected.

But for regular guys like you and me, it ain't gonna happen.

ATTRACTION is triggered by a TOTALLY DIFFERENT message.

It's created by a man who knows how to TRIGGER the attraction when he approaches… not by the man who HOPES it will happen if he's a NICE, SWEET, WONDERFUL GUY.

In short, DON'T SEEK HER APPROVAL OR ACCEPTANCE.

She'll smell the Inner Wuss coming out, and she'll shut you down faster than you can say “I touch myself”.

MISTAKE #5: Thinking You Need To Be
“Original And Creative”

Answer this question:

When you see an attractive woman that you'd like to meet… and you start thinking about how to approach her and start a conversation… what's the FIRST thing you think of to SAY to her?

As you know, it can be TORTURE to try to come up with what to say.

This torture, of course, is SELF-INFLICTED.

And there's a common “theme” at the root of this “self torture”.

This theme is that when we see a woman that we'd like to meet, we tend to think to ourselves, “I need to come up with something ORIGINAL and CREATIVE to say to her”.

Why do we do this?

Because we DON'T want to come across as insincere… or even CHEESY.

So we look at her… try to notice something about her… maybe try to come up with some kind of original compliment… or creative humor.

Here's the problem:

That attractive woman has men looking at her ALL DAY… EVERY DAY.

And they're all thinking the SAME THING.

From HER perspective, every guy is walking up to her and saying one of the SAME FEW THINGS.

The irony is that in our desire and attempt to be ORIGINAL…we wind up saying essentially the SAME THING as the last hundred guys…

And TO HER, it comes across in EXACTLY THE WRONG WAY.

The “original, sincere, real” compliment we give her is just like the last bazillion she got…

And you just become one more “link” in the “mental sausage chain” in her mind.

Really.

So what's the solution?

The solution is to LEARN what to say when you start a conversation with women. Learn how the PROS do it… so you can get an UNDERSTANDING of what actually WORKS.

Only after you've learned from several experts… and then used their methods in the REAL WORLD… should you try to be “creative and original”.

MISTAKE #6: Not Having An ARSENAL
Of Techniques “At The Ready”

You may have noticed that the mistakes I've been talking about have little or nothing to do with “pick up lines” and “techniques”.

Why is this?

It's pretty simple, really…

If you have all these other issues handled, then good “pick up lines” and other techniques are like GUNPOWDER. They're INCREDIBLY powerful.

If you DON'T have these other issues handled, the best techniques in the world can't help you.

So, STEP ONE is to get these other issues handled.

Step TWO is to then learn the very best opening lines and other techniques… so you have “proven systems” for approaching women and starting conversations in ANY situation.

Until now, there's been nowhere to go for the solutions to ANY of these problems.

Now you have to find the way....good luck

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Seduction Secret: How to improve your skill with women in multiple folds, Dating advice for men.

Seduction Secret: How to improve your skill with women in multiple folds, Dating advice for men.
by Gambler

Too many guys get into pick up, drop all their existing friends, and when you fast forward a year or so, they are just hanging out with fellow PUA dudes, they have no female friends and are a little weird. Don't fall into that trap, use your new-found skills to build a social network. Adam Lyons, Master Trainer at PUATraining has the following advice:
IOur social circle is one of the biggest determining factors in who we meet. Going back a bit, in a 1956 study 70% of married American couples lived within 20 blocks of each other before marriage. Now admittedly that was 1956 and this is now, but the basic principle holds true - you're more likely to find success with someone closer to you than you are someone further way.

So, how do we use this to improve our chances? Simple - we expand our social circle!

1) Network, Network, Network
The more people you know the larger your group standing. Ask people what they do for a living, ask for their business card or contact details as "you never know when you might come in handy" This is a really simple business close I have used on countless occasions; Including Head of Intel UK, Head of Communications of the Three phone network and Head of A+R Sony. As you can see these are all real people who have massive value and yet were more than happy to hand over a business card, with their mobile number on, all for potential business and networking.

2) Organise a night out, invite all your friends, tell them to bring friends.
Friends have friends who have friends, and so on. Organising a night out once every 3-4 months will really help you become more social and get used to leading the group dynamic, raising your profile, especially on the night you organise.

3) Join a club. A sports club, a movie club, a dinner club, a sex club - whatever you fancy!
Meet people there, and invite them to your nights out. Again you are consistently building social proof, and increasing the number of people in your group dynamic.

4) Don't try and jump into an encounter or relationship with every attractive person you meet.
Make friends and try to be a little more picky as your group increases, and you will probably find a whole bunch of people are into you naturally. Hold off from the ones you don't want and look out for the one you do. If they turn up to a night you've organised you're in a great position to hit it off with them!

5) Put people in contact with each other.
This is a key part, helping people has a big impact on social networks. Don't give give give to people who only take, but putting people in contact with each other will help you stay the centre of all the interactions, and continue to raise you in all their eyes.

Building bridges like this is a incredibly good thing to do for your social life. The more people you know, the smaller your world gets, and you will regularly be bumping into people who know other people I know, and those people will have other friends in common who's names I already know but who I have yet to meet in person. But I know I'll be meeting them soon - and soon!

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Phone Game reveal: how to talk to her over the phone, Seduction tips for men.

Phone Game reveal! how to talk to her over the phone, Seduction tips for men.
by Swingcat

I get a lot of questions about talking to women over the phone. Instead of answering each one individually I thought I'd do a whole newsletter on the topic. As I'm teaching you exactly how step-by-step to talk to women over the phone, I'll be alluding to an essential *key ingredient* for ATTRACTING women in general. SO KEEP YOUR EYES PEELED AS YOU READ ON.

The lurid reality is this: The vast majority of phone numbers men get will never amount to anything, because most men DON'T know the right way to talk to women over the phone.

If you have not yet learned the *right way* to talk to women over the phone, REALIZE that mastering this skill will at the very least DOUBLE your current success with women - point blank!

When getting a woman's phone number, the average collective male chooses one of three categories of action. In most cases, however, he is damned no matter which one of the three categories he chooses. As you READ each category it will become apparent to you why this is the case.
Category # 1: Trying To Win Over A Woman's Heart...

Some of you hopeless romantics might argue: there is a heap of sentimental value encapsulated in the journey of winning over a woman's heart. Maybe so. But in the wake of your efforts your chances are slim to nil of generating ANY attraction with her. Women are ATTRACTED to men who are the PRIZE. When you try to win over, impress, or get validation from a woman, you are making her the Prize in the interaction, not you. Doing this is the quickest rout to eradicating ANY ATTRACTION there. I should know; I've lost many women from doing this. Their attitude towards me turned from fun loving warmth into contemptuous ennui, imputing me as the source of their boredom. Scorning me, as if I was a suppository wrapped in gold foil that they mistakenly bit into, credulously thinking I was an Almond Roca.

Some men will try to win a woman over by attempting to act entertaining or funny. Acting entertaining and funny can generate MASSIVE ATTRACTION in women but only within the context of being the Prize.

In the context, however, of trying to win a woman over, acting entertaining and funny will destroy any ATTRACTION that was there. Even if a woman is laughing at everything you are doing and saying, she will probably be thinking: “Dance little monkey...dance!” Women somehow clairvoyantly know when you're acting entertaining and funny as a means to impressing or getting validation from them. If you're adamant about acting entertaining and funny, that's fine. But make sure you have the mindset that you're doing it for your own amusement, not trying to win her approval. I know many guys who aren't particularly funny, though, women find them hilarious and very attractive. This is largely because these men aren't acting funny and entertaining in the context of trying to win a woman over. They, instead, are enjoying and amusing themselves. So, when talking to a woman on the phone DON'T worry about impressing her. Have fun. Enjoy the conversation. Amuse yourself.

Many guys will try to fill the quota of a woman's “Ideal Man.” What usually happens is this: As a guy is talking over the phone with a woman she'll bring up what she likes - or more often, what she disdains - in a man. Most guys, then, end up trying to qualify or prove to the woman that they are her ideal man. Don't do this. It conveys to the woman that you view her as a Prize you are trying to win over. If a woman starts listing her “man” standards and requirements or begins yapping about a guy she really likes, interrupt her with, “this conversation's really boring me” or, alternatively, start conspicuously yawning. Both tactics are very powerful because they transform the underlying meaning of your phone conversation from:

To win her over you have to possess or display such-and-such qualities.

Into:

You letting her know that her conversation topic is not winning her any points with you.

(If you DIDN'T get what I just wrote, read it a few more times - it is really important!).

A direr version of this is when guys probe women with questions about what they look for in a man. If you are guilty of this, stop it! Besides making you look insecure about how you measure up to what she's normally ATTRACTED to, you're defining the underlying meaning of the phone conversation as her being the Prize, not you. When talking to women on the phone, DON'T probe her with questions about what she's normally attracted to. ASSUME, instead, that you are the Prize she is trying to win over. Make her fill the quota of your ideal woman. While talking to a brunette on the phone, I might, for example, haphazardly chuckle to which she'll inevitably shoot back with, “What?” I'll rebut with, “You're a brunette, aren't you?” and she'll say, “Yes.” Then I'll let her know she doesn't fill my quota with, “I only like blondes! You aren't my type...but we can be friends.” Doing this is more than light hearted banter: I'm defining the underlying meaning of our phone conversation as me being the Prize.

I know a few guys who try to win women over by giving lots of compliments. I think giving women compliments can be very powerful. But when you give a woman compliments within the context of trying to win her over, you become a courtier: a flatterer of someone more important than you. Put simply, you are unknowingly implying that she is the Prize, not you.
Category # 2: Treating Her Like Your Wife...

If a woman gives you her number - even if you feel like you have a special connection with her or end up sleeping with her the first night you meet - she is not yet your girlfriend or wife. Treating a woman like a wife when first getting to know her will hurl you to the top of the Creep-O-Meter. This means DON'T: ask her questions about other guys she's seeing, suspiciously interrogate her about how she spends her time, and angrily reprimand her for flaking on you. How she spends her time is her business. Telling a confident, intelligent woman who you've just met what she can and cannot do will make her run so fast it will make your head spin.

At some point, most of us, guys, have been chagrined by a woman flaking on us, causing us to brood over it for hours and, then, angrily reprimand her to no avail - it sucks! But you know what: Whoop-de-do...go sail a f*ing boat! Suck it up! She doesn't care. Put your rampant intellectual coping mechanism in check. The angrier you get, the less ATTRACTED to you she'll be. Later on I'll tell you the *right way* to handle women flaking. SO KEEP READING.
Category # 3: Acting Aloof And Disinterested And Letting Her Pursue You...

More than a few people have accused me of endorsing this category. There only half right. As you read on, you'll get what I mean. One of the morals in the movie Swingers is: You need to wait seven days before calling a girl's number - you wouldn't want to look needy or desperate. They give a pretty funny example illustrating the consequences of breaking this moral when the protagonist, a lovable-loser named “Mike” calls a woman he has only known for a few hours seven times in a row, redounding in her telling him to never call her again (If you haven't seen the movie, do so. It's a must). This moral has become intrinsic to the zeitgeist of the modern dating advice and self-help for men world.

The moral is right in theory but wrong in practice. With beautiful women in the Real World, NOT acting proactive will lead to many lonely nights. To smack you upside the head with this, waiting for women to call you is a hopeless strategy. Unless you've gotten a woman on the hook, waiting for her to call is not making her chase you, it is passively wishing for her to pursue you. I am NOT touting you to chase, pursue, and try to win women over, either.
Proactive Prizing: Actively Creating A Space For Her To Chase You...

In my book I talk about Prizing - the art of making a woman chase you. You can only Prize women, however, within certain contexts. And MOST of the time, you need to proactively create these contexts. Passively waiting for these contexts is a losing battle. This especially applies to Prizing women over the phone. If you DON'T call a woman or if you passively wait for her to call you, you aren't proactively creating the context to Prize her. It isn't her responsibility to chase you; it's your responsibility to make her chase you. Don't be passive. Take the initiative. Be Proactive. Will some women think you are chasing them? Yes, but who cares! You can undermine this by, for example, telling her: “You aren't my type and I want to let you know that I'd never go for you, though I do find you amusing to talk to.” This is a form of what in my book I call “Push-Pull.” If you've been studying my book, you probably have already realized why doing something like this will quickly and effectively get a woman chasing you.

I remember the days when I'd passively wait for a woman to call me. Looking back, I now realize the heaps of success I missed out on, all because I didn't yet understand the concept of proactive Prizing.

The better you get at this the more you'll find women asking you out on dates over the phone - it's almost scary how much this happens to me. Don't passively, however, wait for a woman to ask you out on a date. It is up to you to get her from the phone to a physical location (Maybe I'll do a whole newsletter addressing this topic). Will some women perceive this as you chasing them? Yes but, as I said before, you can undermine this later. Let me give you an example. A few years ago, I was talking over the phone with a woman who mentioned an affinity for art. I invited her to an art exhibit. She responded with, “Are you trying to ask me out on a date?!” I chuckled and Prized back with, “No...my grandmother's coming too. I know the elderly don't leave the house much so I thought I'd do my good deed for the year by getting you two girls out for some fresh air. Oh, just to let you know, I don't tolerate funny smells. So be sure to wear your adult diaper.” She laughed and, then, told me I was a wicked bastard. But she showed up at the museum, claiming to be wearing her adult diaper. Luckily, her diaper ended up being G-string underwear.

You don't always have to undermine your intentions when asking a girl out but it usually can't hurt, plus it takes the pressure off her thinking it is some big date.

Sometimes, no matter what you say, women end up flaking. I've met tons of guys who are amazing with women. Yet even they have experienced women flaking on them. Any guy who tells you he never has women flake on him is lying - point blank. The reasons for women flaking are too numerous to list in this newsletter. Many of these reasons are probably different from ones you've thought of. Some attractive women, for example, will flake on guys out insecurity, fearing that he'll discover their flaws, making him less attracted to them. For your sake, however, it is not important to analyze and address the reasons why women flake. If they flake, brush it off, keep proactively Prizing them, and then ask them out again.

As long as you follow my guidelines - even if you're still nervous while talking to girls on the phone - you'll be a hundred times better off. And if you haven't already picked up a copy of my book, do so. I give you step-by-step instruction on how to establish yourself as the PRIZE and get any woman chasing you, allowing you to achieve the mastery and success with women you deserve. And this is only scratching the surface of what I'm going to teach you. Stop allowing opportunities to pass you by. Let me show you step-by-step how to generate massive attraction with women.


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