How to raise you self-esteem and skill with women quickly. Seduction tips for men.

How to raise you self-esteem and skill with women quickly. Seduction tips for men.

I want to share a HUGE realization with you
that DOUBLED the amount of confidence I had around
women in a very short amount of time.

The reason I want to share this with you is
because I know that if you take this to heart and
focus on JUST THIS ONE THING... you will
*definitely* see massive improvement in your
game, and FAST.

Now, I'm sure you've heard lots of talk about
confidence before...

I don't need to tell you that any high-quality
woman is going to put "confidence" on her list of
"must haves" in a man.

It's also no secret that guys who are the very
BEST with women are always *very* confident - it's
no coincidence.

And... I think most guys also realize that if
they were to raise their level of confidence with
women, they would have more success at attracting
more women.

It's obvious, right?

So, how do you do it?

Well, logic tells you that you should try to get
more experience around women - practice
approaching and talking to women, go on more dates,
make some female friends, etc, etc.

This is all great stuff, and I definitely
recommend you do all of those things if you want
to raise your confidence with women.

But there is a "big piece" here that I think
most guys completely MISS... I know I did when I
was first starting out.

That piece is this:

If you want to become more confident around
women... and if you want women to see you as a
confident man... you must first become confident
with YOURSELF.

What I'm talking about here is SELF-ESTEEM.

If you're not confident in yourself, there is
no way a woman will *ever* see you as the type of
self-assured guy she is looking for... it's not
something you can "fake" with lines or techniques.


On the other hand... if you ARE confident in
yourself and have high self-esteem, a woman can
FEEL IT.

Men with high self-esteem are RARE... and they
stand out.

So, what is the best way to build up your
self-esteem?

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How To get A Woman To Stay After She Says She Has To Go. Dating and seduction tips for men

How To get A Woman To Stay After She Says She Has To Go. Dating and seduction tips for men

When most men are talking to a woman and she chirps “I've gotta go,” they take it as a threat that she's about to leave.

They'll either beg her to stay or let her walk away because…

They think she isn't kidding about leaving.

But I've got news for you, my friend…

95% of the time it's easier than tying your shoe to get a woman to stay – even when she tells you, “I need to leave, now!”

Here's what to do...

If you're talkin' to a woman and she says, “I've gotta go help my guinea pig deal with the angst of post industrial madness,” respond with: “I've gotta go in a minute myself.”

Then say something to rivet her attention: maybe share a funny story, show her something interesting, or hint that you know something about her without letting her know what it is.

When you sense you've got her fully engaged, pounce. Stick your fangs into her jugular by bellowing…

“Go! You've got to help your guinea pig deal with the angst of post industrial madness! Leave right now. Hurry! Hurry along!”

Here's what'll happen 95% of the time…

She'll stand their like a dumb deer in headlights, not knowing how to react… but wanting to stay.

Let's plunge into the psychology behind this secret…

The unconscious mind is like an A.D.D. child. It cannot gauge what will be best for it in the long run. All it cares about is what feels good right now.

Whenever you force the unconscious mind to decide between two choices it almost always chooses the one that feels most pleasurable in that moment.

Let's look at an example...

Have you ever had plans to do something really fun, something you were looking forward to, but you almost missed out because you got distracted by some show on TV?

Rationally you knew better. But because the TV show was the source of yout pleasure at that moment, your unconscious mind chose it over your plans.

You might have followed through on your plans.

But I’m willing to bet you felt an urge to watch the show instead.

Same holds true for the girl you're talking to. She might have a date with Johnny Depp. Maybe she's going to collect her lottery winnings.

But because her unconscious mind is receiving more pleasure from you in that moment, a part of her is compelled to stay.

Here's something else cool…

The conscious mind justifies what the unconscious mind decides.

As you became more enthralled by the TV show, do you remember thoughts running through your mind like, "Oh... I'll just finish the show. It doesn't matter that much if I am a couple minutes late."?

Your conscious mind was attempting to justify your unconscious mind's decision.

Can you guess why this is useful?

When she unconsciously decides to stay, she consciously thinks to herself: “Wow, gee... this guy's kinda interesting... I guess I can stay a few extra minutes.”

But this barely scratches the surface of what's going on here.

The power lies in using a psychologically deadly form of push-pull that taps into neurological hardwiring in a woman's brain.

Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you…and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull.

To get a sense of what I'm getting at, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to that urge to chow down on your favorite food? What would it be like to finally give in to your urge and indulge?

I'm willing to bet it would be more intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes?

Now imagine in the midst of enjoying your favorite food a person yanking it away from you.

Annoying, yes? But I'm willing to bet, your desire for the food would grow exponentially.

Same thing is true here…

By engaging the woman, putting her in a good state, you're pulling her into you.

And then… by insisting that she leave through using her own reasons back on her, you're pushing her away, compelling her to emotionally crave you.

Doing this is firing off one of dozens of compliance triggers hardwired into a woman's brain.

Possessing the knowledge and skills to fire off these compliance triggers is what separates the men from the boys. It distinguishes those who get what they want from those who piddle around experiencing haphazard results at best.

Because I want you to be successful with women, I've put together a course called Sexual Connections where I transplant the knowledge and skills for firing off these compliance triggers into your brain.

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How to Get a date in the mall, grocery store, bookstore, coffee house, even on the street. Seduction advice for men.

How to Get a date in the mall, grocery store, bookstore, coffee house, even on the street. Seduction advice for men.

How to approach any cute woman in Shopping Malls ...Better yet, after the initial approach you can even ask her if she sees anything else that she really likes in the store that your sister might ...

Try to remember the last time you went to a mall. Can you possibly look in a direction and not spot a beautiful girl that you would like to seduce? I'd venture a guess and say no.

The malls are always full of girls. Girls who work at various stores and shops within the mall, but also a lot of girls who go shopping or just hang out. Girls love shopping. Though it is harder to seduce a girl if she is surrounded by her friends, it is not always the case.

Walk up and down the halls and look inside stores for beautiful clerks or shoppers. If it is a women's clothing store or something feminine, even better. You can easily walk up to a girl (clerk or shopper) and ask her:

Excuse me. Would you be so kind to hold this up in front of you for a moment? It's my sister's birthday next week and you are about the same size as her and from what I can tell you have the same excellent fashion sense.

Better yet, after the initial approach you can even ask her if she sees anything else that she really likes in the store that your sister might like too because of the similar tastes in fashion. Probe for keywords why she likes certain things over the others etc.

Once you have sufficient information of not only what she likes but also why she likes it you can start your charm. Expand the conversation to likes and dislikes in other areas of her life to get her view on things and so on. If she's a shopper you might want to act very quickly to finding ways for you to continue your conversation somewhere else, but if she works there she won't mind spending the time with you especially if it's not very busy.

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10. I find most things in the MM formula work during the day - it works just like at night

11. Age is sometimes an issue. I have a fondness for young women. By young (its all relative) I mean early 20's (I'm 35). In a club, due to age restrictions this stops a lot of the under 18's getting in (18 is drinking age in oz). On the street/beach etc, 18 and 19 year olds look a lot like early 20 something year olds, so I've got to be careful about gaming the babies. It becomes apparent pretty early (lots of 'ummmmmm' and 'liiiiiiiiiiike' gives em away) and I just eject.

12. Beach game is fucking awesome. Ohhhhhh, the bodies!! Holy fuck! I lurve beach game. Did I mention that I love beach game? Haha. I started out using the patented "Scooby Beach Opener" (see this link when I first posted it after my first use of it http://www.themysterymethod.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1924 there's an early field report somewhere there too). Basically it involves rocking up in a pair of board shorts (helps to have a good body) to the beach. Walk past your set, take out your car key and phone from your pocket, look around to see where you can put your belongings, turn around to the set and say "hey guys, can you look after my stuff while I jump in for a swim". Lock in prop! Tease them about how they don"t look all that trustworthy. Go for a quick swim, and come back and say something like "thank fuck my stuffs still here" (smile). You will get giggles. Tease them about getting sand in your phone etc. Then run your routine "hey guys, while I'm here, can I get an opinion on something?". Need to be careful sometimes, look at how many towels there are an lookout for the angry b.f. coming back for a swim (ignore 3 second rule here)

13. meeting a girl 'out of the blue' fits in with girls fantasy of meeting their dream guy by chance (you know how it goes "gee it was incredible, I just met this amazing guy while lining up for coffee, it was amazing. It must be meant to be!" blah blah blah.) But this 'chance' meeting is much more endearing than "yeah I met this guy at the local pub" (where she's met her last 6 boyfriends). This is different!

14. There are a wider range of girls to be gamed in the day, compared to night. A lot a hot chicks don't like the club scene.

15. Sometimes the 3 second rule does not apply. Eg beach

16. Head to head approaches (she walking down the street towards you) (ok these, I admit, are the ones I need to work on. At the moment, I'm just saying 'hi' with a smile. To stop a chick walking in the opposite direction is hard but im going to nail it.


17. The approach may be different depending on location. E.g. chick sitting on park bench - fuckin easy, no problem. Run opener, false time constraint (hey, you've already got a coffee in your hand, you're on your way back to the office right?), sit down, and you're off!

18. Situational openers: the use of these depends on the location I guess. It depends a lot on what level your game is and how confident you are about 'fitting it in' with the current situation. Example: You're standing next to some girl at the traffic lights waiting to cross the road (throw in a neg, make some sort of comment about her or some variation of the usual "nice bag, my grandmas got one just like that"). Easy. Or in a shop, "i need to pick out a present for my female friend, what do you think of this one". Then "Hey while we're talking, how bout I get an opinion on something?". Other times, I can just walk past a set, spin around with a quizzical look as if I just thought of something and say "hey, guys can I get a quick opinion on something?".

19. the locations for day game are only limited to your imagination (shops, gym, street, park, sporting events, bbqs, public transport, the list goes on)

20. Most importantly, have fun!

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I noticed some posts today that dealt with day game, so I thought that I would post some things I've learnt about day game as there doesnt seem to be as much written about it compared with clubbing (of course the reason being is that clubs have a more target rich environment). I've found there are some differences between day and night game (and heaps of similarities also). I guess this is a work in progress project and comments are welcome. I'm no expert, just hoping this may help some people. Btw, this is in no particular order!

1. In my opinion, day game is harder than night game. At night in a club, chicks expect to be picked up, theyre drinking, theyre in a fun atmosphere, their senses are heightened and the energy level is pumped up. Day game does not have these things. they've got to be somewhere; they're in a hurry; they're bored; theyre thinking about serious stuff; theyve got to catch that bus etc

2. Point 1 is NOT an excuse to avoid day game. Its natural to get approach anxiety (I don't have a problem approaching, but I still get the fear at times (I think most of us do if we are honest), but its just something that you have to push through

3. It's a good idea to interact with a set every time you are walking around. During the day, when I leave the office for coffee, lunch, or whatever, I've made myself a rule that I HAVE to interact at least in some way with a chick. It doesn't necessarily HAVE to be running a routine or be a number close or anything, but as a minimum it's got to be some sort of interaction: end result, we both end up feeling better for our efforts.

4. Depending on the location (and your delivery of course) girls are initially a little taken aback that someone is actually talking to them. I think it's a shame these days that people on a train/bus etc feel uncomfortable if someone talks to them. But don't let this stop you. I've found, that once they realise that you are just being playful, or just asking their opinion on something, and you're not a creep, then they will open up.

5. Sometimes they've had such a shit day and are in so much of a hurry that you can't get their full attention. If they are not receptive and want to get somewhere, just let them get on with things.

6. Don't underestimate the value of SOCIAL PROOF. I noticed this in one of cedars posts (I think?) a couple of months ago. So now with people I see regularly, rather than game them specifically, I use them as social proof. This can range from the girl in the coffee shop, the lunch shop, the chick that cuts my hair (major girl action in that place btw) I walk in now, the whole damn salon knows my name, they all say hi (I go out of my way to say "hey you haven't introduced me to your friend"), and I see a few of them in the clubs (guess who gets to meet their friends!!)

7. Often they don't have much time. They might be on their lunch break, or getting a coffee, or getting the mail, whatever. The point is that often they can't go to a cafe with you straight away to build comfort (they may not be able to drop things to meet with you there and then). So you have to be prepared to settle for a short interaction, and convene another time to meet up. Be flexible. Have options.

8. Initially I wasn't giving them my name, and waiting for them to ask, as per the MM formula. Due to the short interaction, I feel you have to break this rule.

9. Kiss closes haven't been possible in the day for me so far. That's not to say it's impossible, but privacy and social uncomfortableness (the girl kissing in public, that is) get in the way. Oh and if you have a f- closed on the street, you're one dirty bastard!!

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Originally Posted by Explorer

In clubs I have a conceptual model of how things work. I can't execute everything correctly yet, but the outline is there.

Don't try street approaches until you have the newbie mission down. Plain and simple. Day game is a slight variation and you need sold calibration from running the newbie mission or you'll have old ladies hitting you with a purse.

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For street sarging I have no idea how to do it. I have done lots of street approaches using an opener - getting there opinion - ejecting. But it does not lead anywhere.

Women in the bar are in a social mood with an environment that naturally pumps up their emotions. On the street, they're not social. And their emotions are in the frigid zone. Further, they're locked into their routine. ie, they have plans other than hanging out on the street.

You need to:

1. interrupt their routine

2. get them social

3. pump their emotions

How do you do this? Get her to laugh. Use a one line ball buster, a misinterpretation, cocky/funny, etc. Once she laughs, you've accomplished all 3. From there, IMMEDIATELY stack into a routine.

You have 2-5 minutes to escalate kino and qualify the girl. After that, she'll need to get back to what she was doing. Timebridge or mini-date her soon as she qualifies.

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Are you supposed to stack material, just like in clubs?

Yes, but doing this before the woman is socially receptive will blow you out.

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I have read about going for an instant date, and can see it working if you are Pua, but I am nowhere near that level yet

This is no different from bouncing a chick to another venue at the bar.

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So how do you practice street/mall game?

1. Complete the newbie mission.
2. Calibrate day game openers. You should have good one liners from your newbie mission, and some decent neutral opinion openers. Use them.
3. Day game mission. You guessed it. Another newbie mission. Less intense. Sarge 4 days a week at a college, mall or coffee shop. There's no x sets per day on this mission. You might hit one set and run it for four hours.

Happy Hunting

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