How To get A Woman To Stay After She Says She Has To Go. Dating and seduction tips for men

How To get A Woman To Stay After She Says She Has To Go. Dating and seduction tips for men

When most men are talking to a woman and she chirps “I've gotta go,” they take it as a threat that she's about to leave.

They'll either beg her to stay or let her walk away because…

They think she isn't kidding about leaving.

But I've got news for you, my friend…

95% of the time it's easier than tying your shoe to get a woman to stay – even when she tells you, “I need to leave, now!”

Here's what to do...

If you're talkin' to a woman and she says, “I've gotta go help my guinea pig deal with the angst of post industrial madness,” respond with: “I've gotta go in a minute myself.”

Then say something to rivet her attention: maybe share a funny story, show her something interesting, or hint that you know something about her without letting her know what it is.

When you sense you've got her fully engaged, pounce. Stick your fangs into her jugular by bellowing…

“Go! You've got to help your guinea pig deal with the angst of post industrial madness! Leave right now. Hurry! Hurry along!”

Here's what'll happen 95% of the time…

She'll stand their like a dumb deer in headlights, not knowing how to react… but wanting to stay.

Let's plunge into the psychology behind this secret…

The unconscious mind is like an A.D.D. child. It cannot gauge what will be best for it in the long run. All it cares about is what feels good right now.

Whenever you force the unconscious mind to decide between two choices it almost always chooses the one that feels most pleasurable in that moment.

Let's look at an example...

Have you ever had plans to do something really fun, something you were looking forward to, but you almost missed out because you got distracted by some show on TV?

Rationally you knew better. But because the TV show was the source of yout pleasure at that moment, your unconscious mind chose it over your plans.

You might have followed through on your plans.

But I’m willing to bet you felt an urge to watch the show instead.

Same holds true for the girl you're talking to. She might have a date with Johnny Depp. Maybe she's going to collect her lottery winnings.

But because her unconscious mind is receiving more pleasure from you in that moment, a part of her is compelled to stay.

Here's something else cool…

The conscious mind justifies what the unconscious mind decides.

As you became more enthralled by the TV show, do you remember thoughts running through your mind like, "Oh... I'll just finish the show. It doesn't matter that much if I am a couple minutes late."?

Your conscious mind was attempting to justify your unconscious mind's decision.

Can you guess why this is useful?

When she unconsciously decides to stay, she consciously thinks to herself: “Wow, gee... this guy's kinda interesting... I guess I can stay a few extra minutes.”

But this barely scratches the surface of what's going on here.

The power lies in using a psychologically deadly form of push-pull that taps into neurological hardwiring in a woman's brain.

Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you…and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull.

To get a sense of what I'm getting at, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to that urge to chow down on your favorite food? What would it be like to finally give in to your urge and indulge?

I'm willing to bet it would be more intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes?

Now imagine in the midst of enjoying your favorite food a person yanking it away from you.

Annoying, yes? But I'm willing to bet, your desire for the food would grow exponentially.

Same thing is true here…

By engaging the woman, putting her in a good state, you're pulling her into you.

And then… by insisting that she leave through using her own reasons back on her, you're pushing her away, compelling her to emotionally crave you.

Doing this is firing off one of dozens of compliance triggers hardwired into a woman's brain.

Possessing the knowledge and skills to fire off these compliance triggers is what separates the men from the boys. It distinguishes those who get what they want from those who piddle around experiencing haphazard results at best.

Because I want you to be successful with women, I've put together a course called Sexual Connections where I transplant the knowledge and skills for firing off these compliance triggers into your brain.

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