Be Confident, Comfortable around any attractive woman, key to make you more desirable

Be Confident, Comfortable around any attractive woman, key to make you more desirable and attractive. Seduction tips for men.

Who is she drawn to? Guys with good body language could be one answer. Guys who are attractive could be another. A better answer is: Guys who look confident. What determines if a guy looks confident in a night club. It’s very easy…he feels COMFORTABLE, need no approval, and could not careless.

Comfortable Interacting with Beautiful Women
So, she’s seen you and judged you as confident from a distance. As long as you don’t make any of the eye contact mistakes (breaking eye contact downwards or generally being uncomfortable with it), you’ll be fine all the way up to the actual approach. How does she decide if you are still a confident man when you are actually talking to her?


The next stage is appearing comfortable in conversation. Would a beautiful girl ever be attracted to a man who isn’t confident when he is interacting with her? How would this ever be attractive? Okay, well maybe in 2% of cases where she thinks you are “cute”. But 2% of cases isn’t any kind of game apart from the numbers game. So, you need to be comfortable talking to women.

Example: Guys that own model agencies, work in strip clubs, or manage a restaurant with hot waitresses get laid. One of the major reasons is that they are desensitised to interacting with beautiful women and so are comfortable around them. Someone who has worked for a model agency for 2 years will not be shaking, sweating, breaking eye contact, or otherwise looking nervous and uncomfortable if he meets another beautiful woman. She will unconsciously or consciously know that her beauty doesn’t phase him and this will mean he isn’t viewed as a lower life form like the other guys that obviously are very affected by her looks.

How to get there: Go to places with a high concentration of very beautiful girls. Places like strip clubs, exclusive department stores, high-end clubs, and countries like Latvia. In these situations set an achievable goal which will be to open and leave. Have your opener ready and your escape line ready (in the strip club this isn’t necessary since they open you). Desensitise yourself to their looks, get comfortable holding eye contact, keep your composure. Gain experience and realise they aren’t so different or difficult to talk to. What this will mean is that these women start seeing you as confident in the way you interact with them because you are comfortable which will greatly increase your chances of building attraction and closing them.

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Seduction tips: How to be cool, alpha and sexually attractive. Dating Advice for men.

Seduction tips: How to be cool, alpha and sexually attractive. Dating Advice for men.

ALPHA FORMULA #3: Laughing does not always equal FUN.

Fun is a more complete experience than just making her laugh. She has to be IN the experience with you, and having you there as part of the situation as it unfolds.

These are shared experiences, which also create more rapport and trust later on.

If you implement these three steps in your game with women, even before she decides to pull on the emergency brake with you, you'll find you have a much more intense and devastating effect on her.

And you'll also understand on a deeper level what it is that women are genuinely attracted to in a man.

And if you'd like to learn more about how to get the girl without having to trick or hypnotize her - how to get her by being REAL and AUTHENTIC, I've got some cool information that you might not know about...

You can learn both the inner and outer game of approaching women and creating MASSIVE levels of confidence.

(And why you MUST learn it to win out there in the dating jungle...)


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Dating tips: NICE guys DO NOT attract women! Be Assertive, Be honest to yourself and Be Alpha.

Dating tips: Nice guys DO NOT attract women! Be Assertive, Be honest to yourself and Be Alpha. What is Alpha Man quality really? Does it attract women?

Here are a few things an Alpha Man IS:
by Carlos Xumas

- Clever/smart/cunning - He's got a real keen mind...
- Ambitious - He wants more in life than just the "average..."
- Excited - He wants to live life for fun and adventure...
- Honorable - He's got values and principles and morals...
- Dominant - He's not aggressive, but has superior social skills...
- Stable - He's not into extreme or life-threatening behaviors...
- Fit - He's got a health lifestyle...
- Curious - He wants to know more and grow more...
- Balanced - He understands that life is about harmony...
- Natural - He's not trying to be someone he's not...
- Positive - He tries to see things from the good side as much as possible...

Now those are just some of the things that make up a good Alpha Lifestyle.

Not every guy has them. In fact, every guy needs to work on these.
Even me. Every day I find new ways to improve my "Alpha Character"
in one or more of these critical areas.

It took me a little while to build them, but it was worth it.

And these qualities are what women are looking for in YOU.

I will talk about these, as well as the real-life exercises I'll
give you to move you forward with confidence, women, and everywhere
in life you want to go.

Here are a few things an Alpha Man is NOT:

- Aggressive
- Angry at women
- Verbally abusive
- Arrogant
- Obnoxious

There seems to be some confusion (and most of it is created by
other guys hoping to cash in on your confusion) about what it means
to be a STRONG and masculine man in today's society.

I'm not going to throw you more of that evolutionary stuff
because it really doesn't matter. When you think about it, it just
makes sense that we want to be around people who appear or
demonstrate more social value than us. It's because we naturally
want to latch on to their power.

Again, it all comes back to POWER.

So being an "Alpha" doesn't mean you're dragging women back to a
cave.

... or that you're being an aggressive, pushy jerk.

... or that you're being forceful and mean.

... or that you're inconsiderate.

... or that you're acting like a brutish animal.

It means that you understand the basic and PRIMAL reasons a woman is
attracted to a man, and you're not afraid to BE a man.

Because if there's one thing a woman does NOT want it's a cardboard,
one-dimensional wimp that's afraid to let women know he desires them.

You see, there are only two motivating forces in life:

Desire for pleasure...

and

Fear of pain.

Write these down somewhere, because you'll be seeing them now
in all areas of your life.

Pleasure & Pain.

That's it. We are motivated purely by what we feel we WANT (the
pleasurable stuff), and what we feel we most want to avoid (the
painful stuff).

Fear is a stronger motivator for humans because it helped us
survive potentially life-threatening situations. You're smart to
fear wild animals, or large trains speeding toward you. You can't
afford the luxury of thinking too much in these situations. A delay could
cost you your life.

On the other hand, in our modern society, there isn't much you need
to fear. In fact, we fear too much already.

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How to get hot woman, 8 steps to improve your game and attitude.

How to get hot quality women, 8 steps to up your game and attitude.

For a man, successfully meeting women is all about how you ACT. Period. Sure, you have to look halfway decent in the way you dress, stay groomed and not stink like the chunk of two month old polish sausage that I just found hiding in the back of my refrigerator the other day... but the make-or-break factor is and always will be the WORDS that come out of your mouth, and the ATTITUDE that underlies it.

With that in mind, here's eight points to load into your mental backpack when you're getting ready to go off to battle (which is to say, every day of your life...)

1) Remain Focused on the Game -- The art of attracting women is all about knowing how to engage them with a natural curiosity that shows you are at least a little bit interested in *their* world (WARNING: too much = a slick phoney, so be careful). Look for LifeLines (anything that she's hinting she would be open to talking about) and stay committed to working them. Forget about yourself. Fade out your own ego. There'll be plenty of time in the future to gab about your own amazing life.

Remember this: you are NEVER desperately looking for an "ear to bend" -- you are always looking to draw HER out instead. Only those lost souls with limited social contact hungrily crave the attention of any person they can corner into listening to their non-stop yabbering (I'm not trying to sound cruel here, just honest).

Tune out the surrounding world and focus in on her as if you were the only two people in the universe. If done properly (without any subservient whimpering), this kind of attention is flattering to her in an almost breathtakingly way.

2) Stay Calm -- Above all else, act like you're familiar with this whole process. Seduction always begins as a low pressure event. Place her at ease with your laid back demeanor, and let her slowly begin to feed off of it. Be a lighthearted flirt. Don't be obvious -- keep your interest vague so as to give everyone an "out" to protect all egos involved (both yours and hers). She will appreciate your tactful approach immensely, and be impressed with your consideration and charm.

3) Demonstrate Charisma (Likability) -- Sometime during the course of the evening, offer a single simple compliment about something unique to her style and presentation about herself. No canned "You have such beautiful eyes..." compliments. Don't go overboard or make a big deal about ANY compliments that you pay her. Make them seem casual and unplanned (a sudden pleasant thought that just popped into your head and slipped out before you could stop it...), then IMMEDIATELY move on to other topics. Trust me, she heard it.

4) Touch Her To Seduce Her -- Use any excuse you can dream up to get a hand on her. Of course I mean only in the appropriate places... an arm, shoulder, a hair brushback. Do not grope her like a desperate fool. Touch is extremely important because it demonstrates a sexual, "manly" interest in her and keeps you away from the deadly "nice-guy-friend" category. Just make sure you always keep it classy.

5) Risk Taking Is A Turn-On -- Take a chance... a bold comment, break the speed limit, whatever... Stay unpredictable and keep her a little off balance. Men are powerful and at ease with themselves , right? (see item #2...)

6) Be A Man, Not A Boy -- Keep your apartment styled in a mature fashion -- avoid the frat-house look even though your football buddies will probably declare you a big puss. A few REAL house plants (the kind you actually have to water... yee-gads!), and dark solids everywhere. A few *paintings* (don't spend a fortune, just hit the flea markets) instead of the Pam Anderson poster. Got it? Also (very important) junk the "bunk" and get yourself a double-sized bed (because you entertain female company from time to time, that's why) Time to bury the Star Wars bed sheets too. Keep a few bottles of wine in stock and the kind of goodies hiding around the house that a girl would like (popcorn, cheese, ice cream, etc.) for when you want to veg out in front of the tube and get her loosened up.

7) Nurture The Trance Of Romance -- Take her out to see a mushy chick flick by surprise... make a dinner and light a silly candle on a "spontaneous" whim (nothing is spontaneous to a real Seducer...). Do the things that trigger those romantic thoughts and dreams that attract women naturally by pulling up all their fuzziest memories. You'll score major points for creativity!

8) Project The Attitude Of The High Status Male» -- You must NEVER allow yourself to act like a fawning "nice guy"... but you always want to SEEM like one (for an in-depth examination of this all-important topic read this free article on my site... http://www.highstatusmale.com/article_015.htm ). Imagine you have a harem waiting for you back home, and you're trying to determine if she would make a nice new addition. I'm serious. This is the kind of unspoken "winners" attitude that you must keep burning in the far recesses of your mind at all times when you're dating women.

Assume that she likes you and will respond favorably to your charm, but never assume you have a green light to start telling fart jokes or break into your full blown comedy club routine. Humor is all about the CLEVER observation of the absurdities of everyday life -- not the repeating of dumb jokes you read in Hustler or doing your lame celebrity impressions... ("Do I make you horny baby?") That's why they call it a SENSE of humor... you need to base your wit on what you *sense* to be going on around you, which often lies beneath the obvious.

So there you have it. Try a few of these attitude adjustments for yourself -- maybe just as an experiment if you can't face the idea of actually changing anything permanently about yourself. Let me know what happens.

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adriana lima, alessandra ambrosio, doutzen kroes, gemma ward, jessica stam, katsia damankova, miranda kerr, natalia vodianova, sasha pivovarova

-Understanding women
-how to meet and date beautiful girls in college
-when to kiss a women, her.
-how to pick up woman daygame
-approach anxiety and how to overcome it.

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An alpha male can be described with many adjectives, these could
include;

Funny, smart, successful, leader, no BS, in control, cool, socially
acceptable, high status, desirable, sexually experienced and aware,
decision maker, courageous, action oriented and attractive.

You can view it as just being the best man that you can be, because
in your life that is what matters the most.

Women will dream about these kinds of men, because they are really
just being strong male role models or archetypes. They do not put up
with drama or crap from women. They do not let women control them
or tell them what to do. This is what women really respect about these
men, even if they do not say it.

If a woman gets in a relationship with an alpha male, the entire direction
of the relationship will be up to him. If he looks like a socially acceptable
male and turns out just to be another wussboy or nice guy, the woman
will smile but ultimately resent him, because he cannot fulfill her ideals
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