Dating Advice & Tips: Why Women love confident men, how to be more confident.

Dating Advice & Tips: Women love confident men, how to be more confident.

Confident will get you very far with everything in life, not just women. More confident will put you into a different light, league, and ways how people perceive you.
It will comes off in move you make, word you said...it is how you do it, not what you do it with.

We all know how important INNER GAME is, but have you ever stopped to ask yourself what Inner Game actually is? Is it simply when I memorized material very well or maybe when I perfected the delivery of my voice?
Actually, Inner Game is based on confidence, beliefs, and your overall attitude about life. Whether you realize it or not, your attitude is constantly projected to the women you talk to. If you have a strong, assertive, and positive attitude, women will naturally be attracted to you. That's how most naturals get laid. They develop these three aspects of their identity: confidence, beliefs, and attitude. When this happens, they begin to feel more confident and they start to behave like they're the prize, which is exactly what attracts women.
I enjoy analyzing these ideas, and I recently found something crazy below the surface. People in general love leaders, especially women. Leaders are naturally attractive because they radiate confidence and not easily concerned with outside criticism. They know exactly what they want and focus their energies on achieving their goal. I am willing to teach you how to become a leader, how to make people follow you and even respect you. These steps are essential to leading a successful life.


I am 25 years old, but what I have lived through, you cannot even imagine. I believe I've learned a lot in these 25 years--possibly more wisdom than the average joe aquires in his entire lifetime.
The first observation is that charisma does not exist. People do not know how to describe something that is intangible, so they say this person has "charisma", or "this guy is a charismatic person". If you take the time to observe charismatic people, you see that they actually have one big quality in common. They have a frame (or point of view) so strong that people are sucked into their reality. Everything they do reflects an ultra-strong frame that exists inside their individual reality. They tend to have a lot of rules that you must follow when you are around them. They treat themselves with integrity and they absolutely will not tolerate disrespect; in fact they punish it.
You can apply these characteristics to your own life. They are actually core lessons for living succesfully on this planet. Let's take respect for example: How do you ensure that the people around you show respect for you and your work? First start to respect yourself and your work too. When you start to respect yourself completely, other people will respect you as well. If you don't respect yourself, why in the world would anyone else respect you? If you treat yourself like shit, trust me, other people will do the same because you are sending a strong signal to the world that shit is just what you are.
Next, what you must accomplish is to develop a set of unwavering rules in your life that define what people can and cannot do around you or to you. You must punish any negative behavior that impedes upon your integrity. Tell them you disaprove, and make it crystal clear that they cannot behave like that if they want to be in your company. Kick their asses for it. Make them know they did something that you do not respect. If people treat you like shit and you let them get away with it, they will do it again and again. Other people see this, and learn to disrepect you also. Make personal boundaries for yourself, and make it clear to the people around you that these boundaries must be respected. Humans are social pack animals, meaning they will accept the strongest frame presented to them.
For example, if my girlfriend flakes on me, of course I will be pissed off, but I will show her that I am angry and will calmly state that it will not happen again. For everything that she does that I do not like, I tell her she can do it only 3 times: the first time, the last time and never again! My rules are strict. People will enjoy the time they spend with me. In return I will do everything I can for their happiness. I will teach them and have fun with them, but there are some rules you must follow, otherwise you won't see me ever again.
I make options for myself, so that you are not my only choice and I can go out with someone else if I choose. For now, even if you don't have other options, make it look like you do. Behave like you do. I am going to do everything for my girls. I love them and will treat them like a queen, but only as long as I think they deserve it. It is funny to see how, when women don't get what they want, they call me a jerk. They make not like my rules, but they will respect me if I stick to them.
Take a look at the police. They have strict rules. Break them and you'll get punished, and trust me, you won't make the same mistake again in your life. I want you to do the same in your own life. Let people around you know what is allowed and what is not. Otherwise nobody is going to respect you. It is funny, but people will test you from time to time to see if you are still congruent with your frame. That is why I say that "shit tests" are not problematic. As long as you are congruent with your frame, shit tests are a non-issue. Women will challenge you all the time when you are seducing them. That's just normal behavior.
My best friend has this cute little dog. The pet knows that it is not allowed to sleep on the sofa because he got his ass kicked a few times, and still months later he comes near the sofa with his cute little look. He glances at the sofa, then his owner, the sofa, the owner, just waiting for a reaction. He might even put one leg close to the sofa, the whole time looking at his owner. What the dog is actually doing is testing his owner to see if he is still congruent with his rule about sleeping on the sofa. Is he going to allow him to jump on the sofa or is he going to yell at him? The dog is not giving his owner shit, just making sure he is still congruent. Children will test you in the same way. Every couple of days, or even hours, they will challenge you to see if the rules have weakened or changed. You can observe this behavior everywhere in nature.
Now, let's get back to charismatic people. It's funny, but the more rules charismatic people have, and the more they punish those who break their rules, the more charismatic they appear. A negative examples would be Hitler, while positive examples like Christ, Gandhi, the Dalai Lama and Martin Luther King. Being assertive does not make you good or evil. It gives you power, and you choose how to use it.
These leaders issue commands and demand unquestioning loyalty. Challenging their ideas is strongly condemned and often leads to some type of emotional or physical punishment. With women, you give them pleasure and show them a really nice time when they are with you, but you must also remember to punish any negative behavior or disrespect from her.
So the first step toward developing confidence, belief, and attitude is to start respecting yourself! If you have ever gone out with me, you will notice something really unusual: as soon as I go into a set, I am not sucked into their frame. I do not live in their world. You will see that they live in my world. How do you see this? When I approach a set or any group of people, I don't position myself so the whole group can hear me. I don't try to yell so the whole group can hear me. First, I position myself in the most comfortable position, where I feel the most relaxed. Then I reorganize the other people around me in a way I like. For example, I approach them, have them open up to me, sit down, and use the space around
me to make myself comfortable. Then, I might position the extra people to talk to each other, while the target is left to talk to me. This behavior is not something I modelled or learned, but it's been a part of my personality for a long time.
I really can't stand people who have a weak frame. For example, I hate to see guys fall into a situation like this: A guy sits in a chair, maybe one that is totally uncomfortable like the letter S, and he stays there for hours pretending he is relaxed without saying a word about it. He would rather sit there no matter what because the chair is more important than who he is. It is more important than his health or his body... sad. Why the fuck should I be in some uncomfortable position when I talk with some average frustrated woman. What the fuck is she for me?
You will always see me in the most comfortable position you can imagine, while I am in a set or anywhere in life. Why? For a few reasons: You can't be nervous when you are in a relaxed position. You must feel cool. People will see you as a socially cool guy. More importantly, your voice is going to be deeper and more relaxed, so that people will start to lean in to hear you. If you drop your voice down when they can't hear you, they will start to lean in and pay more attention to your lips in order to understand what you are saying. Looking at someone's lips for ten minutes is really sexual.

by Master (instructor from Badboy)


“If you want to break free of the matrix and rid yourself of fear, sign up for the workshop. I am fortunate enough to be able to travel frequently and experience many things but this was the most exciting experience I've ever had. If I could go back, I would have opened more sets the first couple days. I was sick afterwards from the amount of energy constantly surging through my body during those days. During the workshop you are going to feel like the fucking man sometimes, and trust me, sometimes you will hurt- but it is all worth it.”

“BB lifestyle really helped me to master my inner game, what it teaches is a kinda attitude and it incrementally accelerates gradually, I mean BB lifestyle provides all the crucial elements in attitude creation you need to know. With your existing routines/or continously update your rountine pack and strategies. You will truely master the GAME. So if any one of you out there would like to be a natural, you MUST come to BB lifestyle's workshop.”

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-Dating tips: Understanding Woman their nature.
-Dating Advice for men: 8 rules of Confidence.
-Dating: Why do women test men?
-Dating: How to make her wants you.
-Dating: Should you tell a woman how you feel.
-Dating Advice for men: the game and the rules.
-How to date a woman of your dream.
-Seattle PUAs Lair Database
-Understanding women
-how to meet and date beautiful girls in college
-Valentine dating advice
-when to kiss a women, her.
-how to pick up woman daygame
-approach anxiety and how to overcome it.

Dating Advice & Tips: How to get a Girl, How to pick up girls. Understand the nature.

Dating Advice & Tips: How to get a Girl, How to pick up girls. The Mind set that you must have and Understand the nature of courting, dating, and mating.

The Key to this:
"How long have men picked up girls using logic? 20,000 years? 50,000 years?

And how long have we picked up women using our emotional, non-logical, instincts?"

"Seize Opportunity And Get the Girl"
By BadBoy

This game is not played like chess. In the field you must react without thinking. You must go on the offensive. You must do things, then later analyze. I see guys in clubs thinking about what they are going to do for 10 minutes before approaching a girl. That’s so w rong. You must do things, and even if you fail (we all do) you analyze what you did LATER and try to learn something from the mistake. Then try to not to make the same mistake again.

That’s how you get good. That’s how I got good. I failed thousands of times, and then found something that works. So don’t be afraid to fail, it will make you better. Every set is an opportunity to either get with a new girl, or learn something that will improve your game.

Failure = Learning Opportunity

I am proud of every mistake I made in my life. And yes, I still make mistakes, which means I am still learning. Learning never stops. I am proud of that. Never get so arrogant that you refuse to learn and improve yourself.

Something I want to talk about in this newsletter is utilizing every opportunity you have in field as they come up. You are talking with a girl and a window of opportunity opens. If you don’t do something, you don’t try to escalate further, you will lose the girl. It’s simple. She gives you an opportunity to kiss her; if you chicken out in most cases you need to work another 45 minutes to open the window again... Seize the moment when it happens.

When it comes to kiss closing and escalation, I use a very simple technique. When I start to think about kissing, that means she was thinking about it as well. In the next 5-30 sec, I will go for the kiss. Following my intuition rarely fails. I highly recommend doing it this way because your brain is telling you to go for it for a reason. She’s sent you a subconscious signal. I can’t tell you how many times when I was younger I didn’t make a move to kiss, touch or sleep with a girl when the opportunity was there. I thought, “Let me wait a few minutes, then I will do it.”

And every time I waited, something unproductive would happen and I would go home alone. A boyfriend would call, she would go to the toilette and never come back or something else. The universe would PUNISH my hesitation. That’s how I learned to use every opportunity that’s in f ront of me when they happen. Life is too short. Sometimes opportunities won’t make sense, but do it anyway. Follow your intuition. It’s triggered for a reason.

Have you noticed that when you hesitate, things don’t go well?

Now, let me explain you why that is…

How long have men picked up girls using logic? 20,000 years? 50,000 years?

And how long have we picked up women using our emotional, non-logical, instincts?

When you look at human evolution, probably for more than a million years.

So, in reality the emotional/instinctual brain is way more experienced in this area than logic and analysis. Trust your instincts. They are hard wired to steer you in the right direction.

Best,

Badboy

What Students Have to Say

Here are some excerpts of what students have had to say about taking a life changing Badboy Lifestyle Workshop.

“BB lifestyle really helped me to master my inner game, what it teaches is a kinda attitude and it incrementally accelerates gradually, I mean BB lifestyle provides all the crucial elements in attitude creation you need to know. With your existing routines/or continously update your rountine pack and strategies. You will truely master the GAME. So if any one of you out there would like to be a natural, you MUST come to BB lifestyle's workshop.”

“…Have you ever stopped in front of two women riding a bike in Central Park, hold up your hand, smile and calmly said "stop" Better yet, did they immediately jump off of their bikes and wait for you to approach? When I first started, people wouldn't even give me a second glance, but by the time Badboy gave me some pointers on my body language, I could stop people at will. And then get their number.”

“I met a girl through some friends and was worried I was going to mess it up like I had with the previous five girls. With slight adjustments I applied your pickup techniques to convert this new friend into a girlfriend and had her eating out of my hands in no time. I love the way your courses are more than simple approach & close techniques, that they explain the way things are, why, and what”

“The workshop was truly a perception-expanding and fun experience. Badboy is simply a great guy. After our second night out, we came back to my hotel and he has teaching us how to walk a girl for an hour and a half……at 2 AM in the morning! He didn’t have to do that! He truly is a friend that wants to see you get good.”

“If you want to break free of the matrix and rid yourself of fear, sign up for the workshop. I am fortunate enough to be able to travel frequently and experience many things but this was the most exciting experience I've ever had. If I could go back, I would have opened more sets the first couple days. I was sick afterwards from the amount of energy constantly surging through my body during those days. During the workshop you are going to feel like the fucking man sometimes, and trust me, sometimes you will hurt- but it is all worth it.”

“BB lifestyle really helped me to master my inner game, what it teaches is a kinda attitude and it incrementally accelerates gradually, I mean BB lifestyle provides all the crucial elements in attitude creation you need to know. With your existing routines/or continously update your rountine pack and strategies. You will truely master the GAME. So if any one of you out there would like to be a natural, you MUST come to BB lifestyle's workshop.”


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-Dating tips: Understanding Woman their nature.
-Dating Advice for men: 8 rules of Confidence.
-Dating: Why do women test men?
-Dating: How to make her wants you.
-Dating: Should you tell a woman how you feel.
-Dating Advice for men: the game and the rules.
-How to date a woman of your dream.
-Seattle PUAs Lair Database
-Understanding women
-how to meet and date beautiful girls in college
-Valentine dating advice
-when to kiss a women, her.
-how to pick up woman daygame
-approach anxiety and how to overcome it.

Dating and Pick Up tips: 8 rules to boost confident and inner game

Dating and Pick Up tips: 8 rules to boost confident and inner game

A lot of guys have been asking me, what is going through your mind
as you go out to meet and pick up women? It's not really rocket
science, but there is a pattern of thinking that leads you to
success as opposed to failure.

Keep in mind that the winner in life will feel empowered and
excited by a challenge and a new situation. The loser, on the other
hand, will let his mind go through endless failure scenarios,
imagining each of them coming true. Only you can choose your focus.

Now, to give you a little detail, my internal process is simply this:

1) I'M INTERNALLY MOTIVATED. I use my own personalized mental
preparations. I no longer stand in front of a mirror and chant "You
are special!" the way some self-help guys would have you. It only
takes a quick minute to recollect past successes to put your mood
and beliefs in the frame of a babe magnet. Just take 60 seconds to
remember the times when you performed at your best, and you'll get
the mindset you need to be effective.

2) I CAN BE ALONE. I *emotionally* believe that being ALONE is a
worthy alternative to any relationship. Believing this will allow
you to walk away at your own discretion and not feel as if you are
the loser in any interaction, especially when a woman isn't
interested. I have a mantra that goes, "I'm better off alone than
with the wrong woman." When you don't mind being alone, there's no
pain of loss to avoid.

3) I'M RELAXED. Most guys don't truly understand the necessity of
shedding their nervous excitement around women. Sure, in some cases
it can be flattering to the woman you're talking with and it can
energize you, but it also communicates all the wrong things. I've
learned how to stay relaxed and comfortable in the most trying
situations with women. Even if I'm not doing well, I can still
smile inside with the knowledge that it's never the end of the
world. There's always another woman about to show up in my life.




















4) I KNOW MYSELF. I'm totally aware of my own defense mechanisms,
and what triggers them. By knowing how I'll react in situations and
being aware of them, I can then avoid any panic or nervousness. I
took the time to build my self-discipline and self-awareness to a
level where I no longer use the excuse "I just couldn't help
myself!" (Which is a common excuse among guys who can't be bothered
with introspection and building their self-control.)

5) I AM TOTALLY RESPONSIBLE. I take the responsibility for any
success or failure, and I'm aware of which situations are not under
my control. Knowing what is in your sphere of *influence* versus
your sphere of *control* is crucial if you're going to be happy in
life and manage your stress levels effectively.

Every guy out there needs to spend a little time figuring out his
own mental mechanisms and what drives him. Do not get into the game
of over-analysis, or any number of today's New Age, see-a-therapist
solutions. However, you should become adept at figuring out why you
did what you did - WITHOUT JUDGMENT. The closer you get to this
ideal, the faster your skills will improve.

6) I PUT THINGS IN THE RIGHT PERSPECTIVE. A few misses with women
does not equate to total failure. In other words, I don't have to
win them ALL. Men have a secret desire to never make a mistake, and
this need is just another kind of insecurity. It's as though they
fall apart if just one woman didn't approve of them, or if they
were unable to get her phone number. Don't give women too much
importance.

7) I CONSTANTLY TALK AND INTERACT WITH WOMEN. Be around women as
much as you can. This is one thing that keeps your skills sharp,
even when your game isn't going the way you'd like. Just don't
become reliant on women for friendships, because then you slip back
into the "nice-guy" trap.

8) I SEEK QUALIFIED EXTERNAL FEEDBACK. If you have a friend with
GOOD judgment (and that's tough to come by) you need to latch on to
that and use it for all it's worth. They have a perspective that
you do not.

Once I've gotten my own thinking under my control, I can then start
to take my internal game EXTERNAL. This means that now that I've
gotten myself psychologically prepared, I need to take ACTION in
the real world to make things happen. We'll cover that next time...

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