How to raise you self-esteem and skill with women quickly. Seduction tips for men.

How to raise you self-esteem and skill with women quickly. Seduction tips for men.

I want to share a HUGE realization with you
that DOUBLED the amount of confidence I had around
women in a very short amount of time.

The reason I want to share this with you is
because I know that if you take this to heart and
focus on JUST THIS ONE THING... you will
*definitely* see massive improvement in your
game, and FAST.

Now, I'm sure you've heard lots of talk about
confidence before...

I don't need to tell you that any high-quality
woman is going to put "confidence" on her list of
"must haves" in a man.

It's also no secret that guys who are the very
BEST with women are always *very* confident - it's
no coincidence.

And... I think most guys also realize that if
they were to raise their level of confidence with
women, they would have more success at attracting
more women.

It's obvious, right?

So, how do you do it?

Well, logic tells you that you should try to get
more experience around women - practice
approaching and talking to women, go on more dates,
make some female friends, etc, etc.

This is all great stuff, and I definitely
recommend you do all of those things if you want
to raise your confidence with women.

But there is a "big piece" here that I think
most guys completely MISS... I know I did when I
was first starting out.

That piece is this:

If you want to become more confident around
women... and if you want women to see you as a
confident man... you must first become confident
with YOURSELF.

What I'm talking about here is SELF-ESTEEM.

If you're not confident in yourself, there is
no way a woman will *ever* see you as the type of
self-assured guy she is looking for... it's not
something you can "fake" with lines or techniques.


On the other hand... if you ARE confident in
yourself and have high self-esteem, a woman can
FEEL IT.

Men with high self-esteem are RARE... and they
stand out.

So, what is the best way to build up your
self-esteem?

Well as it turns out, I'm actually not the best
guy to tell you.

I just finished up an amazing interview with a
guy who is considered the "Tiger Woods" of helping
people build powerful, lasting self-esteem quickly.

He's written 6 books that in total have sold
over 4 MILLION copies... and is really considered
the "father" of modern self-esteem.

As you may know, I am a huge proponent of
helping guys get their "inner game" together... so
I was really excited going into this interview.

Needless to say, my new friend turned out to be
everything I was expecting... and MORE.

Here are just a few of the secrets he shared in
this exciting interview:

-What to do if you feel women just aren't
interested in you... and you KNOW it's not because
of your "technique" (My friend will show you how
to find out WHY this is happening and fix it FAST)

-The 6 Pillars Of Self-Esteem - The 6 different
things that - when done all together - raise your
self-esteem VERY quickly (You'll notice instant
changes in the way women respond to you after just
a day or two of doing these simple exercises)

-How to quickly get over and eliminate the feeling
of not "deserving" success (This is a huge hurdle
in building self-esteem for some men... but
fortunately there is an easy fix)

-How low self-esteem sabotages relationships {My
friend will show you a surefire way of preventing
this before it starts)

-A simple exercise to reprogram your brain and
put yourself in a mode of BUILDING self-esteem
instead of cutting yourself down

-How to figure out the things you should be doing
to become more successful... not only in building
your confidence but with women (This is different
for every person... use this to figure out exactly
what YOU need to do to get results in the fastest
amount of time possible, then motivate yourself to
DO IT!)

-A daily exercise to methodically build your self-
esteem (Use this on a daily basis to avoid
depression and stay on a positive track...
guaranteed)

-A big mistake men make around their friends that
hurts their confidence in ALL AREAS of their life,
but ESPECIALLY around women! (Eliminate just this
one mistake from your life and you will never be
taken advantage of again)

-How to become more assertive and say what you
really mean and feel... even if you think people
might disagree with you

-And much, much more...

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Be Confident, Comfortable around any attractive woman, key to make you more desirable

Be Confident, Comfortable around any attractive woman, key to make you more desirable and attractive. Seduction tips for men.

Who is she drawn to? Guys with good body language could be one answer. Guys who are attractive could be another. A better answer is: Guys who look confident. What determines if a guy looks confident in a night club. It’s very easy…he feels COMFORTABLE, need no approval, and could not careless.

Comfortable Interacting with Beautiful Women
So, she’s seen you and judged you as confident from a distance. As long as you don’t make any of the eye contact mistakes (breaking eye contact downwards or generally being uncomfortable with it), you’ll be fine all the way up to the actual approach. How does she decide if you are still a confident man when you are actually talking to her?


The next stage is appearing comfortable in conversation. Would a beautiful girl ever be attracted to a man who isn’t confident when he is interacting with her? How would this ever be attractive? Okay, well maybe in 2% of cases where she thinks you are “cute”. But 2% of cases isn’t any kind of game apart from the numbers game. So, you need to be comfortable talking to women.

Example: Guys that own model agencies, work in strip clubs, or manage a restaurant with hot waitresses get laid. One of the major reasons is that they are desensitised to interacting with beautiful women and so are comfortable around them. Someone who has worked for a model agency for 2 years will not be shaking, sweating, breaking eye contact, or otherwise looking nervous and uncomfortable if he meets another beautiful woman. She will unconsciously or consciously know that her beauty doesn’t phase him and this will mean he isn’t viewed as a lower life form like the other guys that obviously are very affected by her looks.

How to get there: Go to places with a high concentration of very beautiful girls. Places like strip clubs, exclusive department stores, high-end clubs, and countries like Latvia. In these situations set an achievable goal which will be to open and leave. Have your opener ready and your escape line ready (in the strip club this isn’t necessary since they open you). Desensitise yourself to their looks, get comfortable holding eye contact, keep your composure. Gain experience and realise they aren’t so different or difficult to talk to. What this will mean is that these women start seeing you as confident in the way you interact with them because you are comfortable which will greatly increase your chances of building attraction and closing them.

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Dating Tips: How to carry yourself, Attitude, Confidence and Energy.

Dating Tips: How to carry yourself, Attitude, Confidence and Energy.

Call it "Energy," call it "Attitude," call it anything you want, but it's undenyably important when picking-up women.

I got a buddy of mine who's a cancer survivor. He's completely bald. And to top things off, he's got a crippled left hand (you know, the gnarled kind with 3 fingers) . But he is one of the most high-energy people I've ever met, and he get's laid like mad, despite being short, bald, with gnarled hand.

I was out at a club last night with a friend trying to shake some of the rust off my game, and realized that I was too in my head. My energy was off, there was no real spark in my interactions and 9 times out of 10, I ended up losing the set because of it. Even my buddy, who's really good at this, was just

spouting routine after routine and losing sets because his heart wasn't into it.

I thought about my friend with the nasty hand and how he works. His approaches are really bad. He'll tell girls they're beautiful first thing, ask them tons of questions, and try to relate to them by telling stories, but his energy is just so fun and engaging, girls go along with it.

I think it's incredibly true that energy is VITAL in meeting and attracting women. There's that old saying about rapport, that if you get into rapport with someone, they'll feel what you feel, and vice versa. So if you go up to a set, spout off routines, and get rapport with them, but you're energy is that of nervousness or stress, or what have you, the set you engage will start to feel those same feelings and want to get away from them (ie: Get away from you!).

My real question when it comes to this topic, and I'd like to hear from others about this, is how do you guys keep your energy high? How do you keep yourself charged up when you go out to meet women?

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I totally believe in the concepts and basic principles you have
put forth but it boils down to this: Yes, things come to the people
who don't expect them or need them but in order to give of that
vibe you truly must be in that "zone" truthfully.

I have not dated or gotten laid in the past seven years, I am being
mindful when I approach women and get numbers to be cool laid back
relaxed, in control like any alpha man would. But.... the problem
is as we all know women have built in radars that can detect things
in men.

For example: Guys who are in relationships get hit on by women more
than guys who are single for some reason.

So how can I be in the zone of not being hungry when I truly am
starving? My approach doesn't come as needy but there must be a "X"
factor or something that maybe women are sensing?

Because I call them once and never hear from them again, not even a
first date at all but, at the time them are giving me the initial
indicators of interest and attraction.

How do you control your hunger when in reality who haven't had a
girlfriend or gotten laid in over seven years - or ever?

Yes, neediness drives women away, but how do you mask it or control
it and appear not hungry when in reality you are truly truly
famished?
______________________
CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:

This is a great question, because it speaks to the heart of what I teach.

First of all, remember that the problem is not that you've not gotten laid in seven years. That's a symptom, not the actual disease. Mistaking it for the real problem is what distracts most guys.

The secret is really to NOT pretend that you’re not hungry. We all know that’s impossible. Women DO sense this and they DO avoid men with that rabid scent of "gotta get laid" just as much as men avoid the women with that rabid scent of "gotta get married."

But just because you’re hungry doesn’t mean you can only have ONE kind of food.

Wouldn’t it be nuts to say, “I’m starving to death! I haven’t had a bite to eat in 3 days!”

“Well, here, have some of my chicken sandwich.”

“Oh... Sorry, I only eat Pizza. Do you have any pizza? I gotta have some pizza!”

That would seem ridiculous, right?

But the same thing applies to women.

If you’re starving for sex, you’re not really looking at the big picture. You’ve just become a slave to your own genitals.

You can “feed” this hunger by using your sex drive to push you into new experiences in life, such as widening your social circle, trying a new way to meet women (such as the “multiple streams of female income” that I teach men how to leverage in my programs.)

Saying that you can only get fulfillment by getting a woman in your life is narrow-focused and short-sighted. If you find the things in life that REALLY fulfill you, women will realize that your hunger is not going to consume THEM.

Which is why women avoid these men.

You see, every women knows that behind a man starving for sex is a guy who hasn’t found his calling, or his Alpha Manhood. And she will not be able to trust him until he does.

But if he’s learned the secret of finding his "nutrition" in many other areas, she’ll know he’s stable and trustworthy.

A man's sex drive is one of the most powerful forces in the universe. Channeling that drive into other areas of your life will absolutely help you get rid of that "hungry" and desperate vibe.

If you’re a Hungry Guy - and we all have been at some point - the answer is NOT in chasing after women as the only path to your satisfaction.

The answer is completing your life so that when you’re with a woman, there could be a dozen just-as-cool things you could be doing at that moment.

THAT is when women will really take notice of you.

Because it's really not "hunger." It's ENERGY that you have not tapped into in the right ways to move your forward in the other areas of your life that you've been neglecting.

When you hold this energy in, you'll get emotionally constipated, which is part of that "X factor" you mentioned in your letter.

Unfocused light is useless. But focus that light into one coherent beam and you have a laser.

Let your energy out and push you toward feeding your desires with other achievements than women.

And I can guarantee you that the women will want to come along for that ride...

Find out more about this Alpha Lifestyle HERE.

Your friend,

Carlos Xuma

The Secrets of the Alpha Man program is THE map to finding yours.

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How to make an impression with any woman. How to be sucessful with women.

How to make an impression with any woman. How to be sucessful with women.

The key to secret of success is Confidence!!! Confidence will reveal itself once your inner game is tight. Any woman will attracted to you, doesn't matter how hot or how savvy she is!!!
It's all instinct!!!

This could be the most life-altering thing you read.
First, let me ask, have you heard the term "inner game"?
Do you know what it means?

There's a lot of terminology thrown around these days, and I wanted
to see if you'd heard this one.
Essentially, your "OUTER" game is how you interact with women. What
you say, how you handle body language, tone of voice, etc. It's
everything outside your head.

And "INNER" game refers to all the stuff that's going on inside
your head when you interact with women.

What are you thinking?

How high is your anxiety?

Are you nervous, or are you calm?

Can you think of what you need to say when it's the right time to
say it? Or do you find yourself fumbling for words?

Are you able to stay loose, or do you get very self-conscious?

Now, I could make this into a long and drawn out seminar on the
meaning and definition of inner game, but it doesn't need to be
complicated at all.

Inner game is really just this:

Your SELF-CONFIDENCE.


There are strategies and tactics, specific things you can say to a
woman, but these aren't really as important as your overall level
of self-confidence.


Have you ever wondered why it is that certain guys get away with
more in life?

I don't mean bad things, like getting away with a bank robbery or
anything like that.

What I'm talking about is SOCIAL LIBERATION.

Social Liberation is the ability to "get away" with more when
you're interacting with people.

Some guys just seem to be able to speak their mind about anything.
Sometimes they even seem arrogant, but the difference is that
they're respected.

They have the ability to assert themselves in a conversation, with
men or women, and not appear like a dumb tool. They are the ones
that people listen to, primarily because they seem to have a sense
of passion. They seem to know what they're talking about, and come
across with conviction.

You may not always agree with them, but you do respect them.

It doesn't matter if the guy is just pushing forward with his goals
in life, or he's busy with a social calendar. He's got a life you
almost envy.

What makes him so different than you or me? or any guy for that
matter?

Back to the topic of inner game...

Do you ever find that, after you read a bunch of the "lines" and
strategies from e-books and other dating guides, and you go out and
use them, that you're missing something?

When you approach a woman and start to talk to her, do you feel as
if you're on shaky ground? That if she were to ask you, "are you
picking up on me?" you'd probably crumble and lose your nerve?

You'd feel like you were "caught"? Found out?

Do you ever feel that just learning the tactics isn't quite enough?
That there's something missing that would really give you more
success?

You're not alone.

I felt this way, too.

For about five years, I was on this self-improvement binge. I was
reading every book on relationships and dating that I could to find
out how this thing worked.

I mean, you know I'm a very analytical guy, and there was a part of
me that knew that female attraction could be understood. Not in a
mathematical formula, or some chemical recipe, but in a way that
would unlock the whole psychology of what was going on in a woman's
mind.

See if this is sounds familiar to you:

I watched women do all their weird, illogical things, like flaking
on dates, or not calling, or telling me that they wanted to be
friends only, and I got more and more frustrated.

Yes, the frustration was partly because I felt like I was NEVER
getting anywhere and my goal of attracting beautiful women and
getting a quality girlfriend was like a carrot dangled just out of
my grasp.

But there was something else.

I noticed that it seemed like every time a woman did flake on me,
or didn't call, or wanted to just be friends ...

...well, it was weird, but I felt the reason always had something
to do with ME.

Even if I didn't understand what was going on, and it didn't make
any logical sense, it was actually kind of consistent. Like *I* was
doing something in there that made them react this way.

I started to see that it wasn't as important what she was thinking
inside, or that I unlock that code, but that if I did CERTAIN
THINGS, I'd get similar results.

If I called her too much, I noticed that she would stop calling me.

Huh.

If I tried really hard to impress her, she would pull away and not
seem as interested.

Huh.

If I wasn't that interested in her, and I didn't come on very
interested, she seemed to have more interest in me.

Huh.

If I was occasionally outrageous in my behavior (bratty, loud,
cocky), she would be more interested.

Hmmmm.

So I suddenly realized that there were things that I could do to
get her to behave in certain ways. She was reacting to how *I* was
acting.

But here's the BIG realization: If I did these things without
really believing in them, they didn't work.

I once called this one girl up that I thought was losing interest
in me, and told her that I wasn't as into her anymore, and that I
wasn't sure if I should see her anymore, just to manipulate her
into feeling more attraction for me.

After that, she told me that it would be a good idea not to talk
for a week. And I called her back again that night. (I just
couldn't stop myself - I felt like I was losing her.)

And she dumped me by the end of the week.

Now, you probably recognize this as a common strategy for guys to
play "hard to get." But what I was missing was that I didn't have
the self-confidence behind those words. When I told her I didn't
think we she should see each other, I REALLY thought inside that I
was going to be heartbroken if she left me.

I didn't believe in what I was saying, and she could see it a mile
away.

What I ended up doing after I went through all that misery was
finding a bunch of books and tapes on self-improvement. I piled
this stuff up and listened to it every day. I read the books every
day.

I did the affirmations.

I planned out my goals.

I made all the mistakes.

I started to wonder if I was just not that good looking. Or I
didn't have enough money to attract a quality woman.

But I knew deep inside that was a cop-out. I had a bunch of friends
that got girls all the time, and these dudes were pretty ... uh...
"below-average," let's just say.

And I finally figured out what was missing in my "game" with women.

It was ME.

Not my looks or my clothes, or any external stuff.

I just wasn't prepared to present myself to a woman with
self-confidence, because I had never really taken the time to
figure it out for myself.

Every time I learned a new "trick" to attract a woman, I was really
just loading a gun I didn't know how to aim or hold correctly. So
the women would see through it and I'd fail.

I got mad at all these "gurus" who were telling me to just do this
and do that and women will just line up at my door, begging for me.

Instead, I found that I couldn't get that many phone numbers.

And then I couldn't get many of those numbers to turn into dates.

And almost all of those dates ended with an avoided kiss (if I felt
confident enough to go for it), or there would be a message on my
machine the next day, saying, "I had a great time, but I just don't
think there's chemistry between us. I'd really like to stay
friends, though! Bye!"

Yeah. Friends. Right.

And I got more and more frustrated and desperate with every failure.

I was pissed at those dating advisers. They didn't give me the
whole picture.

They didn't tell me how important it was to have the inner game
under control.

I found that when I was truly happy being alone (meaning that I
stopped really NEEDING women in my life to complete me and my image
of me), the ladies started getting interested in me.

It was weird.

It was as if someone had just tapped me on the shoulder with a
magic wand and changed my view on the whole man-woman thing.

I decided that I wanted to help other guys avoid what I went
through.

It took me YEARS to get my inner game fixed. From my downfall to my
recovery, there was a LOT of pain, my brothers.

I would spare you that.

If you've read my e-books, you know how much I emphasize that there
are things that you can do and say (tools, strategies), and there
are also INTERNAL ATTITUDES that must be under your control to be
successful with women.

For the longest time, I didn't know how to explain how to improve
that INNER GAME.

I couldn't find the way to explain how to improve your
SELF-CONFIDENCE.

Then it hit me like a thunderbolt....

Wham!

I could just outline all the RIGHT things I did to fix my inner
game. Just the stuff that WORKED. None of the crap that didn't,
like going to a therapist to talk about my inner child, or how I
have unresolved abandonment issues.

I could just outline a roadmap of what I did to get success, and
make it as versatile as possible, so that ANY guy could use it and
succeed.

And the one thing I could do differently is to include information
on the one self-confidence builder that every other author leaves
out.

How to be successful with women AT THE SAME TIME.

I mean, let's be real here. The ONE big thing that improves a man's
self-confidence the most is to do well with women.

And since this skill also requires that a man get that
self-confidence, you can't separate them. They're all part of the
same DYNAMIC!

This was really eye-opening to me, and I hope you see what I'm
getting at - my BIG realization.

You can't get better with women without improving your inner game
(your self-confidence.) And you can't improve your inner game
without improving your skill with women.

They both work together, like chocolate and peanut butter in a
Reese's Peanut Butter cup.

The best part of this is that you can improve your inner game and
also improve yourself in the process. You get better at EVERYTHING
in life.

When I had gone through the right steps of self-improvement, it had
these side effects:

- I had raised my annual income by 500% (No joke. I watched it
double and triple when my confidence increased.) I went all the way
to Vice-President of a major corporation.

- I was able to do the things I wanted to do in life, like jump out
of a plane and parachute, and go to Italy, and get my black belt,
and drive in a racing school.

- I got along better with my family, and when it came time to take
care of someone close to me in her illness, I was able to handle
everything with strength.

- I got a wider social circle of friends who cared about me, and
that increased the amount of love in my life overall.

- I got rid of that shaky insecurity, and suddenly nobody
intimidated me anymore.

- I was just plain HAPPY.

No hype, I'm convinced that you can have all the success you want
from life if you just go get it.

Success is not a pie with only so many slices. It's a bottomless
well that you only have to discover for yourself. Take a look at
the web page and read the success stories of all the guys that have
managed to turn their lives around for the better.

I believe that every man has a well like this created for him when
he came into this world. All you have to do is find it and claim
it. (Hint: it's closer than you think.)

The Secrets of the Alpha Man program is THE map to finding yours.

Carlos Xuma
Dating Advice for Men


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-Dating tips: Understanding Woman their nature.
-Dating Advice for men: 8 rules of Confidence.
-Dating: Why do women test men?
-Dating: How to make her wants you.
-Dating: Should you tell a woman how you feel.
-Dating Advice for men: the game and the rules.
-How to date a woman of your dream.
-Seattle PUAs Lair Database
-Understanding women
-how to meet and date beautiful girls in college
-Valentine dating advice
-when to kiss a women, her.
-how to pick up woman daygame
-approach anxiety and how to overcome it.

Dating advice and tips: Confidence, secret of attracting and seducing beautiful women

Dating advice and tips: Confidence is men's key to attract and seduce beautiful women.

Five secret rules that will boost your success with hot and beautiful women by Carlos Xuma

The Five Secrets of Confidence that create powerful magnetic personality to attract Women...

When women don't respond to us as attractive and masculine men, we feel like a chair has been kicked out from under our confidence. It's a real blow to our ego, and eventually it becomes much more important to avoid that kind of pain at all costs.

Have you ever been talking about this with a woman (a woman you think would have good information on this topic), but all she has to tell you is, "Be confident!"

Boy, that's helpful. She might as well say, "Just DO IT!"

I'm here to tell you that when someone says "Be confident" to you as advice for attracting women, they haven't got a clue how to actually DO IT. It's a cop-out, and it's also a bunch of CRAP.

Or sometimes they would say something like this: "Don't worry... the right person will come along for you when you're ready."

I had women tell me this and I wanted to scream "Well, I'm ready NOW!"

This is another one of those harmful bits of advice that says you have to wait for fate or destiny - or luck - to put a woman in your life. I don't know about you, but I don't buy that one at all. And it's a good thing I didn't.

No matter what level of confidence I was at, I still wanted a woman in my life, and I wasn't willing to wait around until I got the confidence before I could have the women.
Well, let me tell you that this is one of the best secrets of having a great sex life and confidence....

SECRET #1: "The Unknown Secret of How Women Sense Your Overall CONFIDENCE Level, and the Secret Ingredient to Attracting Women That Even 'Pickup Artists' Don't Know About or Understand..."

You don't have to go into years of work on your self-esteem, or go see a therapist, or any other deep "inner child" work to improve your self-confidence and your success rate with women.

In fact, what I found out purely by mistake was that the more you are actively working on your own life - pursuing your passions - the more women will be interested in what you have to offer.

Here's a little technique you can use in your next conversation with a woman, and it's guaranteed to get her more interested in you than any of the small talk you've been using so far. I'll explain why it works in a minute, but be sure to use this:

Think for a minute about your most passionate hobby, talent, or part of your life. (It can be anything - except women.)

Think about how it makes you feel to be actively engaged in doing that activity.

How confident do you feel? How ALIVE do you feel?

When you imagine the experience of doing that activity, do you feel more energized and excited?

Great...

Now the next time you're out talking to a woman, make it a point to bring up this passion of yours in conversation. Related to her what it is, and how it makes you feel when you're doing it.

Here's an example: I love to play the guitar. I have a few playlists on my computer with songs I like to play along with, and I crank up the amp and just rock out to some of my favorite tracks. There's nothing like that feeling of losing yourself in the music, feeling the strings vibrate under my fingers, and just being carried away by the song.

When you talk with women, use those sensory words (like I did with "vibrate," "crank," "losing yourself," etc.) as much as you can when you describe your own passions.

You'll even find your own energy level rising naturally and your excitement becoming contagious.

Every time I've used this with women, they are always much more interested and attracted to me after I talk about the guitar.

For one, it's about music and being creative. For another, I'm passionate about it and I get excited talking about it. And when I use all that sensory imagery, it hypnotizes her into experiencing it with me.

Remember one thing: Passions are the best topic of conversation because they energize you and demonstrate your level of ambition.

(I'll tell you more about how to discover these passions in a minute...)

SECRET #2: "The Secret Reason A Woman Uses The 'LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS' Excuse - And Why Women Go After the 'Jerks'..."

You don't want to be the "Nice Guy" or the "Jerk" when it comes to attracting women.

You want to be an ALPHA MAN.

The women that tell you they "just want to be friends," or that they're "not ready for a relationship" seem to have no problem sleeping with the bad-boy who is about as reliable as a weather report for next week. Funny, huh?

Or not-so-funny, I should say.

The reason that women say they want to "be friends" with you, or you're a "nice guy" is that they're really trying to say something else...

What a woman really means is this: "You aren't exciting me enough to be someone I can think about sexually. But I can't say that because if I mention sex, that might give you the impression I'm slutty, and I can't do that."

On the surface, that may seem a bit complicated, but it's not.

Keep in mind that women are brought up to maintain their social image at all cost. Women actually enjoy sex at least as much if not MORE than men do, but they can't say this or they would seem "slutty."

So when a woman uses this "I want to be friends" excuse, she's really just trying to tell you in the safest way possible that you're not pushing her "attraction buttons" with the way you're talking and behaving with her.

By being "nice," you're also being "safe."

We all know these guys who are just friends of the women, but - let's be blunt - NEVER get laid. These are the guys, who buy women gifts and flowers, compliment them too often and have a hard time saying "No" to women. (This was also me, by the way, before I figured out what the essential attraction qualities really are...)

"The Nice Guy" is the personality you adopt when you hope that you can prove how good you are for a woman. You start to give her things, compliment her, and you adopt a posture of extreme weakness in the process. When you work this hard for approval, you will almost always turn a woman off.

On the other hand, you don't have to be a Jerk, either. In fact, being a Nice Guy OR the Jerk is being fake. You need to be the man you already are to really impress her. But you need to bring out the best parts of you to attract women.

You simply need turn your mind around to learn how to present yourself as a dominant and powerful MAN. And that is when women will start to try to be the "Nice Woman" for you!

IMPORTANT NOTE: Over 90% of guys have problems when it comes to their inner game and self-confidence (and I'm being conservative). What I'm offering you here is the unique chance - to make YOU in the top 10% of self-confident guys that WOMEN WANT!

Most guys never get to be an Alpha Male (also known as an Alpha Man). This is the kind of guy you see having the most fun, hanging out with the hottest women.

The Alpha Male is the leader of the pack. He gets women and he gets what he wants because he's a dominant and respected man, with strong masculine self-confidence.

The Alpha Man is NOT the aggressive guy who's pushing everyone around and being an arrogant jerk. You see, a "jerk" is really a guy who has taken all the "aloof" behaviors WAY too far. Alpha Men understand the balance and don't have to use brawn or aggro behavior; now we have to use our brains.

An Alpha Man is also not a "jerk" or a pushy, testosterone-driven meat-head.

You're CONFIDENT and secure of your value, and because of this you can show more of your true self to women without fear. You can be more GENUINE.

You don't need to try to buy a woman's affections, or compliment your way into her heart (which doesn't work, as I'm sure you now know.)

The Alpha Man is also socially intelligent - knowing how to handle most situations with finesse and confident masculine leadership.

Did you know that... Impatience is your #1 killer of seductions - and opportunity in your life? By talking like an Alpha Man you communicate your Alpha Status on a primitive level that interests women? By increasing your social circle you can socialize and network to meet more women? You can use YOUR OWN emotional intelligence to unlock your hidden power with women? You should use organic problem solving to increase your ability to solve problems "on-the-fly" in ANY situation? By utilizing the power of PASSION in your life you can attract anyone and get them to like you? There are several specific "Nice Guy" behaviors you must get rid of to attract women...?

Haven't you always wondered what it is that certain men GREAT men had that make them so successful in life, how they manage to rise to the top? How they achieve such great things, and always attract women - beautiful women to come along for the ride?

You've probably even heard and understood that the men who get the most out of life get the highest quality women, get the most money, get the most success, get better jobs, get more sex and satisfaction overall than those men who are more like, say, the clerk at the convenience store, or the waiter at Denny's.

These men have a certain dominance about them. Yes, they are assertive - even aggressive at times, but it's much more than that.

These men have some special inner quality that allows them to be more confident, persistent, and generally get whatever they go after. They meet single women (the highest quality), attract women, and are able to keep them interested and sexually attracted on a deep and primal level.

You can LEARN how to be one of these men.

"What Women REALLY Want - and Why She Will Stay With You For As Long As You Want - Or Leave Without Hesitating..."

Think about it... each of us desires what the other gender has.

Women want men who are MEN. (And men want women who don't act like men.) But today's society has us acting like anything but what we should be to be authentically attractive to the opposite sex.

REMEMBER THIS: There is nothing more unattractive to a woman than a man who isn't masculine.

The unfortunate thing is that most of us guys were never given a "masculine attraction" class in high school. That's another of the many reasons I want to tell you about how you can develop your inner Alpha Man.

Let's get started by destroying one of the harmful myths out there...

MYTH: You need to be a woman's "friend" before you can be her lover...

Every romantic involvement with a woman must begin with a passionate seduction in order to develop into anything further. You cannot start out as friends and hope to turn it into romance later on. ("Friends first" is a complete fallacy.)

Seduction isn't bad or wrong! It's absolutely necessary.

Picture this scene: A guy is talking with a beautiful woman in a bar. She's laughing away at his jokes, flipping her hair back, and touching his arm as if she's known him forever, but you know she's only just met him. The worst part is that he's not even good looking! And his suit looks like he just re-used his couch fabric. Eventually, she leaves with him, hand in hand.

What could this guy possibly have or know that allows him to be brave enough to jump in and attract beautiful women successfully?

SECRET #3: "To be successful with women and project an "Alpha Aura," you must have what I call the Critical Success Factors (the "Three S's") with women..."

Critical Success Factors - "The Three S's" Self-confidence is the outer projection of your self-esteem and how you feel about yourself. It reflects your ability to take control of a situation, as well as how much you like yourself as a person. A woman can read how confident you are before you open your mouth. Sense of humor is your ability to make her laugh. Laughing lowers her resistance to you, as well as creating a bond and a connection. You don't have to be a comedian, but you do have to be lighthearted and playful. Self-control is the ability to act when it's appropriate, and to do nothing when you need to show restraint. It's your coolness and calmness, even when everything around you is going crazy. A woman will test your self-control at every step of the way. These traits combined create a powerful communication style that will put you over the top with any woman you desire. Good looks are not - repeat - NOT necessary. (But you do have to take care of your appearance, because that is what she looks at to figure out if you'll be able to take care of her. You should be well-groomed and nicely dressed at a minimum.)

Women Do Not Choose The Men They Are Attracted To, Any More Than You Choose The Women That You Want.

A man's attractiveness lies on a subtle layer of communication, totally unrelated to your appearance. Once you know the principles of how to communicate with women as an Alpha Man, you can use this knowledge whenever you want to get a woman interested in you.

Women WANT to be seduced by men. But only by a man who initiates and takes control in the right way.

SECRET #4: "The 4 Secret Ingredients Of Attraction And What Women Are REALY Looking For In A Man..."

I want to tell you what women are most attracted to. These are what I call the Attraction Factors - or what I call "Core Attractors" for women, and they work with EVERY woman.

1. Prosperity (His money, possessions, gifts)
   
   
2. Power, Social Status, & Value (Fame, authority, hard-to-get, social influence)
   
   
3. Appearance (Including his height, build, and looks)
   
   
4. Character (Confidence, lifestyle, sense of humor, romantic creativity, intelligence, personality, etc.)

You can't change any of these significantly except for the last one: Character.

You can cultivate this one single attribute and make up for (and override) your lack of ANY of the other 3. (Some people will try to teach you that the "social value" indicator is the most important one to women, but it's NOWHERE near as important as your character and lifestyle are.)

The good news is that the last one is the one that I also found the easiest to make significant improvements and changes in a short period of time. In fact, women actually sense your character from you FIRST, and they make all their judgments about you based on it.

And if you only have one of the other core attractors WITHOUT this, you will not have the same level of success.

SECRET #5: "In Order To Escalate With a Woman to Create a Sexual Connection, You Must Learn How to 'Flip The Switch' in Her Mind..."

Another myth many guys believe is that in order to be successful in attracting a woman, or taking things to a sexual level with her, that you need to establish a commitment with her.

In other words, to get physical with her, she will expect to be your girlfriend, or you must establish a long-term relationship.

This is not true.

I'm going to tell you what the hidden need is that women actually have in a moment, but I need to tell you about something you must do in your own head to "reboot" your brain and thinking to win this game.

"The first thing you need to do to regain your Alpha Power is..."

... to 'Flip the Switch.'"

What I mean by this is that you must learn how to shift your perception from what it is you want to GET from your interactions with women, and start thinking from HER perspective.

No, I don't mean you have to put on "chick goggles" or anything like that. What I'm talking about is remembering that every woman is tuned in to W.I.I.F.M. It's the radio station that we are ALL tuned into: What's In It For Me?

This is the question you must be answering with your attitude and your first impression with a woman when you approach her.

She isn't looking at you as a man - she's looking at you as a choice of SITUATION. You aren't just a guy approaching her, you are a set of expectations, a job, a set of hobbies, a family, and all the baggage that comes with you.

Now do you understand why women are so hesitant and skeptical of men? Why they test us all the time?

For a woman to be interested, you have to be broadcasting the right programming for her WIIFM.

So when you Flip The Switch, you are simply thinking about what YOU would want to hear if you were trying to figure out if a person was being sincere or not. How would they sound? What would they say?

What makes the information that I want to teach you different is that I learned and understood that the source of all success with women, and the secret ingredient to attracting women - was all locked up in just one core principle: CONFIDENCE.

Once a man found his confidence, everything else came from there... success approaching and dating women, success in handling life's challenges, handling your money and building your wealth and prosperity...

And EVERY guy can use my principles - my SECRETS - of being an Alpha Man ... all with their REAL personalities.

I hunted down all the proven techniques and methods for building self-confidence and self-esteem that I could find. I tried them all out.

What I came up with was a tried and true method of increasing your confidence with women.

Learn more about how to attract beautiful women Here...

Learn more: The Secrets of the Alpha Male


peace!