How to meet women on Facebook and other social network. Dating and Seduction tips for men.

How to meet women on Facebook and other social network. Dating and Seduction tips for men.

How to get a date and more from Facebook!

First of all, let's remember the catastrophe that is "Myspace."
(May it rest in peace.) That social network has been so polluted
and abused that it's really not useful anymore. I know I don't take
it seriously.

What happened there?

Well, first of all, everyone got slammed with spam. A few clever
programmers and bulk friend programs, and suddenly you had Myspace
pages that looked like web sites from the year 1998.

Cheap backgrounds, silly wallpaper, and everybody's page looked
like a 14-year-old girl's bedroom, complete with Britney Spears
posters.

Enter Facebook.

A whole lot classier than its trailer-park cousin, Facebook has
maintained a better image. But with a bunch of cool toys and
add-ons that made it interesting and more fun.

So how can you work this great social networking tool to help you
with your dating life - while not looking like some pervert who got
kicked out of the alleys of Myspace?

I'll give you a very simple 4-step model to use. This is the one
that my friends and I have used consistently to get results online.

STEP 1: Connect with the guys - and other women - who have a lot of
cute girl friends.

In other words, connect with people that you are NOT interested in
dating who have big networks.

You must be very indirect at first using Facebook.

Remember the lesson from Myspace - Don't be a spammer!

This is not "match.com" or an online dating site, so don't just
start sending out invites and emails hoping to score based on
numbers. We've come to hate the abusers, and you'll just get your
sorry ass kicked right off.

Start out with light connections. Think "friends first."

Don't make your Facebook profile look like you're trying to meet
women. Be subtle. Your profile should project your Alpha Lifestyle.

What you're trying to do is multiply your results and increase your
connection potential by meeting more people who know more people.

If you just start trying to hit on the women you're interested in
right off the bat, you'll be limiting your results with
shortsighted thinking.

Think out to the LONG term. The more cool people you connect with
and forge relationships with, the more likely you are to connect
with a woman naturally.


STEP 2: Connect with women you are interested in VERY indirectly.

What you have to do is send a simple friend request - and make sure
you include a message with it!

You just say something like, "Hey, I saw we're both friends with
Greg... Then I noticed you're a snowboarder, too... Ever go to
Tahoe?"

You see what I did there? I left a question INSIDE my friend
request. For her to answer it, she's going to feel compelled to add
me.

It's also just something people are looking to do. Let's face it,
we all measure our social success by how many people we've got as
friends on Facebook. We all want a HUGE network, so women will WANT
to add you - if only to increase their friend count.


STEP 3: Start leveraging the tools.

Facebook has a huge amount of potential for the guy who wants to
take advantage of them. You can add all kinds of cute little
applications to send virtual drinks to friends, send goofy gifts,
or even start your own polls and surveys.

But one of the best tools you need to be using is the GROUP
function on Facebook.

In fact, in preparing for this article, I created the group "Carlos
Xuma's Alpha Lifestyle" to start connecting you guys together and
enabling men to share information.

You can do this, too. Just create a group based on your passion and
your local area.

I'm going to advise you to avoid starting a group based on
"Warcraft" or on the latest hot actress.

Make your group something a woman can relate to and might be
interested in. Maybe it's the television show "Lost..." or maybe
it's about all things Italian.

Ba-da-bing! Now you've got a hook to use to invite her into your
group.


STEP 4: Start escalating and creating more opportunities.

Remember, this is a VIRTUAL tool. It's online.

In other words, your connections don't REALLY exist anywhere except
on some server in an air-conditioned room in a data center somewhere.

It's up to YOU to bring these connections to life with events that
you can invite people to.

Most people will stroll around this virtual network, but then never
take it into the REAL world. That's where YOU come in.

Maybe once a month you should organize a happy hour at your local
favorite bar. Or maybe you make a Facebook group for wine tasters,
and then every other Friday you meet up and go tasting the latest
Pinot Noirs.

THAT is your opportunity to start looking for romantic potential in
the groups. You have to remember that you can't be a Facebook
"pickup artist" and try to "hit on" women online.

You have to build a network, forge some connections, and meet women
in person to start creating the attraction.

That being said, you can also send out some playful introductions
to women you don't know and see if they bite. (Just make sure your
profile has enough interesting bait for them to nibble at...)

- Write on people's walls...

- Send a few virtual drinks...

- Send some good karma...

- Use the "Flirtable" app...

For the man with initiative, the Facebook world is yours.

So step up and start creating the social network, then start
meeting the women in it.

By the way, if you'd like to add me as a friend, go look me up.
Carlos Xuma on Facebook.com...

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