Looking good is part of attraction and key to seduction. Dating Tips for men.

Looking good is part of attraction and key to seduction. Dating Tips for men.

What is your "Look"?

How do you think people see you, when they first meet you?

What is your first impression?

Do You Even KNOW yourself?

If not...you'll want to seriously consider what I am about to cover
with you.

Don't you think you deserve to make a strong first
impression? I think you DO.

That's the topic for the 8th installment of our Master Class
series...mastering your personal style, or what I often refer to
as, your LOOK.

I was just outside, coming back from lunch this afternoon. I made a
few mental notes about the various first impressions I noticed from
the sidewalk.

- First, a homeless person - so that's a clear and very extreme
first impression...right? I hope you don't fall into that category.

- Now we have a lovely attractive young woman without a jacket on a
day when you might wear a jacket, because it's somewhat chilly, and
a Burberry scarf, pearl earrings, hair pulled back. She's very
elegant, very pretty.

- And then there's a gentleman standing by the ATM, whose suit
makes him appear to be a security guard (which he isn't btw). His
clothing doesn't quite fit, just a little too big. His shoes are
not quite polished. He has a fairly bland look, with a balding
head, pounding away at his Blackberry.

(As a fun exercise: you might look around you and just see
how it is that you respond to people based on how they are
dressed...interesting, eh?)

One certainly sees everything here in New York, soup to nuts.
(And I mean NUTS)

You get everything from clear, specific, interesting personal styles,
as was described with that young lady.

With her, everything was working together - her outfit was well
organized, she looked smart and elegant. Also, it worked for her body.

Her look indicated a clear IMAGE to the world, one that served
her personality and her outer life for the day.

And then the blue-suited gentleman who frankly just faded
away. There's nothing directly interesting about how he looked,
therefore I won't remember him in five minutes time.

He "fits in" and struck me as an "average guy".

How many of you out there project the image of an "average guy"?

What I want to do with this email is to try to outline for you some
basic principles of building a personal style, or LOOK.

OK?

So the first piece you need to get handled, is understanding the
difference between being Physically attractive and Genetically
attractive.

There is a difference, and in the dating game, it is a
HUGE difference.

Guys who are genetically attractive are typically naturally
handsome men. Think George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Pierce
Brosnan etc...

Guys who are physically attractive are any guy who goes
the extra mile or two to do the most with what he has. He
may or may not be genetically attractive, but he is always
looking his best - he is at his most attractive.

It is possible to be genetically attractive, and yet not
physically attractive. It is also possible to not be genetically
attractive BUT still be physically attractive.

Guess what? Women are just as interested in the LATTER
as the former.

So, if you take ownership of your LOOK and do the most
with what you have, you can optimize your look and
dramatically improve your chances with women.

No excuses! (in other words)

Typically, guys who struggle with women are not Physically
attractive MEANING that the things that are well within their
control are not "handled":

- Their fashion and style choices
- Their lifestyle choices and how that impacts their "vibe" or daily energy
- Their grooming

All the things that are within their control - things that you can
do TODAY to deal with that - are not handled, or are handled VERY
poorly.

These are the "average" guys who struggle with women.

Am I ringing any bells here?

OK - so time for some action steps here:

Ask yourself the following three questions when considering your
look and image...here goes:

No. 1: Does it help me feel more powerful and confident?
No. 2: Will it help me achieve the aims I strive for in life?
No. 3: Does it work for my body type and personality?

Take those three questions with you as you begin to cultivate and
design for yourself an image.

These questions might factor into a decision over a certain
garment, jacket, pants...

Or, they might help when considering certain lifestyle choices
you are considering. If you're wondering whether to take an
art class or to take a language class, you might prefer the language
class as it would naturally bring you into contact with more and
more people (aka: WOMEN).

Let's look at an example related to fashion that you might be facing
even today.

If you have an office type of job, and you want to dress better at
the workplace (a GREAT idea by the way), diving into the
jeans rack at the Gap might not be the wisest choice.

What I would suggest, in that case, is going to a good men's
store, perhaps not something that's overpriced - here in
New York we have Zara, which is great for men, particularly
of my size, who are fairly thin and tall - they have great pants there.

Every major city typically has exceptional stores for clothing,
mid-range stores for clothing, and then the average stores for
clothing.

I would stay away from the average stores, and shoot for the middle rack.

You know, you're not going to go to Saks Fifth Avenue, here in New York,
if you're not loaded with green. But you might go to Macy's, or Zara,
or you might go to good, intelligent thrift stores like Housing Works,
where they often have hand-me-down's worn by people who have great
taste in clothing.

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