Friday, June 27, 2008

Seduction Dating tips: Three Big Secret during Mid-Gaming, dating advice for men

Seduction tips: Three Big Secret during Mid-Gaming, dating advice for men.

I've been watching a lot of guys talk to girls. I've spent hundreds of hours listening to every word of the conversation between a guy and a girl who have just met. This has enabled me to come up with countless new theories and methods of teaching. This was a massive realisation for me....
Do you generally just "chat"?
Is your conversation undirected and random?
Are you actually interested in the answer to the questions you ask?
Are you just filling time until you go for the close?

Hey, it's what most guys do, so you'll do okay like that, but here's how we can super power your conversation from the first minute to the close. Pay attention and watch your results multiply.

After the opener, once the girl has committed to an interaction you need to be focused on 3 possible objectives and to switch between these modes as necessary. Here they are:

Connecting
In this mode, you are actively working to elicit emotions, motivations and character traits and to connect on them thus facilitating the strongest possible close. Your conversation follows the format: elicit information, connect, go deeper. If you ask a series of questions you will put the woman under pressure and have an unnatural interaction. Underneath the answers to surface level questions, from her favourite colour to her job to her interests, there are always deeper levels of connection - what that favourite colour says about her character, why she works (for money, because it is a passion, to reach her future dreams).

Number Closing
When you need to be going for the close, start to lead into it. Go for connections and mutual interests that can lead to a date. A classic example is: "Do you like going to clubs?" "Yes!" "Cool, we go to lots of cool parties, you should come sometime" "Okay" (Hand phone). The idea is that when you know you need to be closing you start to look for things to do together that seem to flow naturally from the conversation but allow you to go for the number.

Building Attraction
If you are having a nice interaction but you feel it isn't going anywhere you need to build attraction. You do this with:
Challenges - Think about what you want in your ideal girl and ask her questions to see if she measures up.
Breaking Rapport - 'nice' guys agree with everything, confident guys agree when they agree and disagree when they disagree.
Status - Act like the CEO, think about your tone, keep it flatter. Be comfortable with pauses. Remove umms and errs.

Anyway, hope that helps.

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