Three steps to make the better dating life: Dating tips for men

Three steps to make the better dating life: Dating tips for men

THE THREE UNIVERSAL STEPS TO BETTER DATING SKILLS:

STEP 1) Are you getting out of the house and putting yourself in
social situations and places where you can meet women on a REGULAR
basis?

If YES, move on to step 2.

If NO, then you need to get out and start doing this ALL THE
FREAKIN' TIME.

Getting laid is a contact sport, my friend. You need to be meeting
people and expanding your social skill set all the time. It starts
right at the basics - with your ability to just go out and have fun
with other people.

Go to speed dating, go to parties, go to bars and clubs, go to
match.com, go EVERYWHERE you can.

PERIOD. No excuses.

Anything you may have just said in your head or out loud to
contradict what I just said is bullshit, and you shouldn't tolerate
it.


STEP 2) Are you approaching or meeting women right now?

If Yes, great. Move on to step 3.

If NO, then THAT what you need to be doing. A woman isn't going to
magically appear, and feminism was a big lie, so no 'liberated'
women will be approaching you anytime soon.

Start meeting women right now by simply walking up and talking to
them. It's easy.

It's stopping that voice in your head that keeps trying to talk you
out of it that can prove to be a challenge.

And if you need it, I can help you to shut that voice up...


STEP 3) Are you CONSISTENTLY taking the lead by moving forward and
escalating with ALL the women you're dating?

If Yes, then great! You've passed, and you're on the road to
getting all the success with women you could ever want. It's only a
matter of time, because this is all you ever need to do.

If your answer is NO, then your next goal is simply to start moving
FORWARD with every woman you meet to either make them a romantic
possibility, or a "see ya later..."

Be ruthlessly intolerant of women wasting your time. It's one of
the critical success factors of all guys I know who get good
results with women.

+++ IT'S ALL ABOUT FORWARD MOTION...

When I say "move forward," I simply mean that you MUST not allow
yourself to stay in the "comfortable" and "safe" zone with a woman
where you're just happy to have gotten her out on a date.

Again, it's a common error that a guy will get a woman out and then
be so afraid of "messing it up" that he never makes an advance,
physically or emotionally. And then she just drops him in the
friends bucket because he couldn't get up the balls to make things
happen.

Now believe it or not, those three steps that I just explained to
you are the ones that 95% of guys are NOT doing.

Seriously.

As in, no joke.

They're not practicing the basics. Instead, they're looking for the
next most clever technique that can help them forget that what they
really need to do is take ACTION.

And honestly a lot of guys are immobilized because they just
haven't found the right starting place to take that action.

Well, action has never been easier then now.

All it takes to develop dating skills is that you overcome your
natural inclination toward laziness and what I call "SFN" syndrome.
("Something For Nothing.")

The average man gives in to his impatient nature, and he gets no
results.

The Alpha Man excels by overcoming his limitations and paying the
price to get what he wants.

But he's also smart enough to NOT OVER-PAY for his objectives! You
don't need to spend years in intensive therapy to get yourself in
touch with your masculinity and get REAL results with women.

Do you ever feel like you're at a loss when it comes to approaching
women and getting them interested in you - romantically?

Read the next couple paragraphs carefully, because it has a DIRECT
IMPACT ON YOU...

Women are attracted to several key behaviors in men. These are
things that many guys don't know women want because they seem to
goes against what they think of as "nice."

The ideas I've just discussed in the steps above are what I
consider to be essential behaviors to incorporate in your identity.

These are a critical part of dating success with women.

Most guys spend no time improving their skills with women, and then
they end up chickening out when the time is right to approach women.
They'd rather sit back and talk about what they WOULD do, but not
actually muster up the courage to DO IT.

I'm going to tell you a little secret:

I used to be the same way.

Yep. I was scared to death to walk up to a beautiful
woman I didn't know and just start a conversation with her.

If you're like me, you know that this situation doesn't get
better without learning some new skills and techniques to overcome
your fears. It simply will NOT get better on its own...

I made a decision right then that lasted me a lifetime. I decided
that - do or die - I was going to learn how to approach women, how
to talk to women, and how to get a date. No matter WHAT it took.

The Secrets of the Alpha Man program is THE map to finding yours. How to be sexual and turn her on.

Carlos Xuma
Dating Advice for Men