Seduction Tip: Play Hard to get women? THREE STEPS TO GET BACK WITH A WOMAN WHO PULLS AWAY.

Seduction Tip: Play Hard to get women? THREE STEPS TO GET BACK WITH A WOMAN WHO PULLS AWAY.

1) YOU slow down the pace.

Now that you're back to dating regularly again, you must be the one to demonstrate some doubt and put the brakes on yourself.

Of course, in a lot of other dating situations, she cools off and the guy is left desperately scrambling to get her to even see him again, but either way, it calls for some restraint.

I talk about this quite a bit in my ebooks, but your best demonstration of strength and Alpha Confidence comes when you show her that you have self-discipline and self-control. It will then give her the space she needs to desire you again.

Let me say this again, because it is such an important concept:

A woman will want you again when she feels like there is nothing pushing her to you.

It's a simple psychological principle that has worked for me with EVERY woman that expressed hesitation about getting together and getting physical. All you need to do is give her the emotional experience of uncertainty to re-awaken her desire.

Just say something like:

"You know, I've been thinking that maybe we're moving forward pretty quick. I'd like to slow it down a little and make sure we can just be friends first. You know what I mean?"

This will relax her, and then you keep marching forward.

Of course we know that you never try to just be "friends first" with a woman that you're intimately connected to. It just doesn't work. But you want to create the space for her to understand that you won't be pressuring her.

This will create the space where you can then...


2) Establish trust and rapport.

The one thing she's looking for before she goes forward with you physically is that she can TRUST you. So you must show her that you are a reliable (but not boring) guy.

Take her out with some friends of yours that you've known for a while and are fun. I've found this a great way to demonstrate my social value as well as get her out of the same old mindset.

ALPHA FORMULA #1: Rapport is NOT equal to TRUST.

Rapport LEADS to trust, but does not guarantee it.

Rapport and trust are not exactly the same thing. It's up to you to find out where her current trust issues are and eliminate them.

Don't ask here where they are, either. All you can do is show her some vulnerability, and that she is not just someone you're out to score with. Maybe even a little time.

Oh, yes, this is something every "pickup artist" on the planet fears, but is ultimately more honest and compelling than the "command & conquer" method of trying to control a woman.

ALPHA FORMULA #2: Vulnerable does NOT equal WUSS.

It simply means being secure enough to demonstrate rapport by revealing common emotions to her.

Of course you also want to...

3) Switch gears back to having FUN as fast as you can.

The one thing I discovered that had the most impact on making women interested in getting physical with me again was to get her to have FUN with me.

A woman's emotional experience and sexual attraction with you is directly related to how much fun she feels when she's with you.

The more I got her active and out of her head, the less I was "serious" and pushing to move forward in a relationship, the more I found that she wanted attention and time from me.

And, the reverse was true. The more I felt like she was slipping away and the harder I worked to "fix" things, the more I actually sabotaged the good vibe we had together. Secrets of inner game and self confidence

When she's having fun, she has nothing else to worry about.

When she's having fun, she's not in her head.

When she's having fun, she's connecting on a very intense level with you.

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