Seduction tips: 3 sure ways to attract women, Attraction secret and Dating tips for men.

Seduction tips: 3 sure ways to attract women, Attraction secret and Dating tips for men.

Have you ever wondered why women you see out at
bars and nightclubs (and even at malls and
restaurants) sometimes dress so SEXY?

It's an interesting question.

I mean, let's think about it from the woman's
perspective...

An attractive woman gets attention from men all
the time... no matter WHAT she's wearing.

Attractive women don't have to "accent" their
beauty in order to attract men.

And the question becomes VERY interesting when
you consider that often it's the most BEAUTIFUL
women that go to the GREATEST lengths to enhance
their beauty.

You know what I mean...

A perfectly beautiful woman gets an expensive
operation to make herself "one cup size" larger...

A tall, stunning model spends all day at the
mall shopping for just the right high-heeled
shoes...

A naturally beautiful woman spends hours in
front of the mirror getting ready to go out... and
puts on tons of makeup...

AND FOR WHAT?

Could it possibly be worth all the extra time
and effort... spending HOURS and HOURS to get that
"extra little bit" of beauty, when a woman already
has "more than enough"?

Hey, no one ever said women made SENSE.

(Don't get too excited. Men have their strange
points as well.)

Let me tell you about a few of the reasons why
women go to these lengths to squeeze that "extra
little bit" out of their beauty...


1. To Maximize Her Strengths In Order To Attract
The Best Man

Let's turn this picture around, and look at it
from another direction.

Let's imagine that an attractive woman is
getting ready to go to a party.

There are going to be a hundred men and a
hundred women at this party (I know, I know... you
think that I must be smoking something... because
most parties have 100 men and 10 women... and
resemble the sausage counter at your local
market... but humor me here for a second).

If there are going to be a hundred men at this
party, it follows that a few of those men are
going to be the "best" ones.

Do you think this particular woman is going to
want to settle for one of the "random sausages"
running around?

Nope.

She wants the "best" one... if possible.

And that guy has OPTIONS.

Soooo... she needs to "fix herself up", EVEN
THOUGH SHE'S ALREADY BEAUTIFUL... if she wants to
have the BEST chance of getting THAT guy.


2. Competition From Other Women

This particular idea was one of the most
interesting and surprising things I learned about
women while I was educating myself about dating
and attraction.

Here's the deal:

Attractive women tend to be VERY, VERY
competitive.

A few years ago, when I first moved to Los
Angeles, I was introduced to a concept called "The
Bitch Look".

Sounds charming, doesn't it?

Here's how it works...

When a "hot" woman walks into a room, EVERYONE
checks her out.

The "sausage" looks her up and down with a "let
me get a really good look because I'll be using
her as a spank-it fantasy later" stare.

The "top guys", who have options, glance at her
and make a "mental note" to talk to her later.

The OTHER hot women look at her and give her...
yep, you guessed it.... THE BITCH LOOK.

Why?

Because another hot woman is instantly seen as
COMPETITION.

A hot woman doesn't want OTHER hot women
competing with her for the "best guys".

So they give other women "bitch looks".

It's competition, intimidation, and millions of
years of evolution all rolled up into one special
package.

(Think about this for a minute, because there's
a clue here about how to attract the MOST
attractive women. I'll reveal the secret later...)

So let's just say that attractive women DON'T
LIKE COMPETITION.

In order to MINIMIZE their competition, they
FIX THEMSELVES UP... and emphasize their good
points TO THE MAX.

When an already-beautiful woman goes to the
trouble to pick out just the right clothes... the
ones that flatter her figure... and put on just
the right makeup... in a way that draws attention
to her finer points... and styles her hair... in a
way that draws attention to her and frames her
face...

...it puts her ABOVE the competition


3. To Get The Most Attention And Approval

Now that we've talked about a couple of the
underlying reasons why women go to great lengths
to make themselves more beautiful, I want to talk
about the one reason that has the most VALUE to
you...

This reason holds the secret of actually
ATTRACTING beautiful women.

But let's not get ahead of ourselves just
yet...

At the very CORE of human psychology and
behavior are the twin concepts of ATTENTION and
APPROVAL.

Some evolutionary theorists think that the
basic formula goes like this:

If you get more attention from others, and
those others like you more, then you and your
offspring are more likely to survive and pass on
your genes to future generations.

Is this making sense?

Think about it this way:

If others of your species DON'T like you and
don't give you any attention, you are going to
have a hard time finding a mate... and
reproducing.

And if others don't like you, then you aren't
going to have the benefits that come from the
group... like protection, combined effort, etc.

It just so happens that an attractive woman has
a SUBCONSCIOUS (but VERY accurate) indicator of
whether or not "the group" likes and approves of
her...

It's the amount of ATTENTION she gets.

If a woman is getting a lot of attention, it
keeps her feeling "OK". She knows, on a deep,
primal level that she's accepted by the group...
and that she's going to stay healthy and have a
good chance of mating with a "top male".

But this particular concept has a DARK SIDE to
it... and don't they all?

Just like anything else that triggers
feelings/emotions (very addictive chemicals),
attention and approval can lead to a literal
ADDICTION.

It's like money, fame, power... all the famous
ones... YOU CAN'T GET ENOUGH.

And here's another VERY interesting point:

If you're a beautiful woman who is always
getting attention and approval from men and you
meet a man who DOESN'T give you that attention and
approval, it has an INSTANT and POWERFUL impact.

Furthermore, if the man you're interacting with
actively AVOIDS giving you attention... and gives
you DISAPPROVAL, it can have the effect of
instantly SCRAMBLING YOUR SYSTEMS.

Again, attractive women don't meet a lot of
guys that could care less about her beauty... and
instead see it as a "cover up" for some "hidden"
thing...

Which leads me to the "secret" I mentioned
earlier...

If you want to learn how to ATTRACT these
"unusually beautiful" women, then you need to get
a clue about what creates the idea in her mind
that YOU are one of the most "desirable" men.

And how can you do that?

...Oh, by the way, before I give you the secret
here, I want to mention something: If you want to
REALLY get an "insider education" on the deeper
psychology of attracting women... and on how to
build a powerful SEXUAL PRESENCE... then I highly
recommend that you check out my "Power Sexuality"
program. This is like ROCKET FUEL for creating
CHEMISTRY with attractive women... and you can
only get it in one place:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/PowerSexuality

OK, back to the secret...

1) Become rich and famous

or

2) Get plastic surgery to look like Brad Pitt

or

3) Trigger ATTRACTION inside of her.

Here's the interesting thing about triggering
ATTRACTION:

When you do it, she can't CONTROL it.

If a woman starts feeling ATTRACTION for you,
I'll guarantee you that she didn't "THINK about it
and DECIDE to feel it".

And I guarantee you that she can't CHANGE IT by
THINKING ABOUT IT.

And guess what one of the BEST ways is to
TRIGGER this "automatic and subconscious" physical
and emotional response called attraction IS?

Here's a hint:

It has something to do with these two concepts
we've been talking about... ATTENTION and
APPROVAL.

If you're interacting with an unusually
attractive woman, it's VERY important that you
don't communicate to her that you are "overwhelmed
by her beauty"... or that you can't control
yourself.

Furthermore, if you actively control the amount
of attention that you give her... and you don't
show her "approval" too quickly (and even show her
some DISAPPROVAL)... you'll often create a
POWERFUL interest inside of her.

Why is this?

Well, think about it for a minute.

You're the hot woman walking into the "sausage
party".

For the first two hours, you keep having guys
walk up to you and say, "You're really hot" and
"Can I get you a drink?"

Every guy that comes within ten feet of you
can't stop looking at you, and the ones that talk
to you make it clear that they would be willing to
do anything for you...

And then you meet a guy that isn't like any of
these other guys AT ALL.

He's clearly not impressed with your beauty,
and he's even busting your balls...

You can't tell if he likes you or not, and you
feel CHALLENGED by him.

How are you going to respond?

Let's add another element...

For some reason you can't explain, you're
starting to feel a GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for him.

NOW what do you do?

That's right: You give him all of YOUR
attention and approval... hoping that he will give
YOU some in return.

In other words, you switch from the one being
pursued to the one DOING the pursuing.

And so the question is... HOW?

How do you create this situation, and
communicate these things to an attractive woman?

How do you do it in such a way that it creates
ATTRACTION... and gets her to start pursuing YOU?

I've given you a lot of good ideas here.

They will get you started.

But, if you'd REALLY like to learn how to take
control of "attention and approval" and turn them
into TOOLS that you can use to attract those
"unusually beautiful" women, then I'd like to
recommend that you invest in my Cocky Comedy
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It has taken me many years of time, effort, and
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You may have even used it, and found that it
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Carlos Xuma
Dating Advice for Men