Using Confident to impress woman, Dating and seduction Tips for men.
HOW TO REALLY IMPRESS A WOMAN...
There are a lot of guys out there with conflicting messages
regarding what it is and isn't like to be "Alpha."
As in "Alpha Man" or "Alpha Male."
Let's start right off by saying that "Alpha" behavior is NOT bad.
It is NOT what you see animals doing in their nasty time in the zoo.
It's NOT attacking a tribe and killing all the young, or any weird
stuff like that.
Look, "Alpha" just means the dominant male (and sometimes the
female) in a group.
It's the person that is most likely to procreate and get their genes
into the next round of the "Keep-the-species-alive" game.
So it really does make sense for you to get successful with
women if you think about it like this. If you don't find a woman
to mate with and create little teeny versions of you, then your
family line ends with you.
Scary thought, isn't it?
Do you deserve to have your genetic legacy carried on into the next
generation?
I hope so. And more importantly, I hope YOU believe so.
Here are a few things an Alpha Man IS:
- Clever/smart/cunning - He's got a real keen mind...
- Ambitious - He wants more in life than just the "average..."
- Excited - He wants to live life for fun and adventure...
- Honorable - He's got values and principles and morals...
- Dominant - He's not aggressive, but has superior social skills...
- Stable - He's not into extreme or life-threatening behaviors...
- Fit - He's got a health lifestyle...
- Curious - He wants to know more and grow more...
- Balanced - He understands that life is about harmony...
- Natural - He's not trying to be someone he's not...
- Positive - He tries to see things from the good side as much as possible...
Now those are just some of the things that make up a good Alpha Lifestyle.
Not every guy has them. In fact, every guy needs to work on these.
Even me. Every day I find new ways to improve my "Alpha Character"
in one or more of these critical areas.
It took me a little while to build them, but it was worth it.
And these qualities are what women are looking for in YOU.
I will talk about these, as well as the real-life exercises I'll
give you to move you forward with confidence, women, and everywhere
in life you want to go.
Here are a few things an Alpha Man is NOT:
- Aggressive
- Angry at women
- Verbally abusive
- Arrogant
- Obnoxious
There seems to be some confusion (and most of it is created by
other guys hoping to cash in on your confusion) about what it means
to be a STRONG and masculine man in today's society.
I'm not going to throw you more of that evolutionary stuff
because it really doesn't matter. When you think about it, it just
makes sense that we want to be around people who appear or
demonstrate more social value than us. It's because we naturally
want to latch on to their power.
Again, it all comes back to POWER.
So being an "Alpha" doesn't mean you're dragging women back to a
cave.
... or that you're being an aggressive, pushy jerk.
... or that you're being forceful and mean.
... or that you're inconsiderate.
... or that you're acting like a brutish animal.
It means that you understand the basic and PRIMAL reasons a woman is
attracted to a man, and you're not afraid to BE a man.
Because if there's one thing a woman does NOT want it's a cardboard,
one-dimensional wimp that's afraid to let women know he desires them.
You see, there are only two motivating forces in life:
Desire for pleasure...
and
Fear of pain.
Write these down somewhere, because you'll be seeing them now
in all areas of your life.
Pleasure & Pain.
That's it. We are motivated purely by what we feel we WANT (the
pleasurable stuff), and what we feel we most want to avoid (the
painful stuff).
Fear is a stronger motivator for humans because it helped us
survive potentially life-threatening situations. You're smart to
fear wild animals, or large trains speeding toward you. You can't
afford the luxury of thinking too much in these situations. A delay could
cost you your life.
On the other hand, in our modern society, there isn't much you need
to fear. In fact, we fear too much already.
You have so much free time now that you have more than enough
time to think about all those scary possibilities out there.
Now this might not seem like it's important to how you attract
the ladies, but it is.
Stay with me...
The fear that is most crippling to you is the fear of LOSS.
Everyone's favorite short green dude, Yoda, even said it in one of
the Star Wars flicks...
"Fear of loss leads to the dark side."
And so it does. It leads you down a path where you never gain
because you're too afraid of losing what you have.
An Alpha Man understands that the only way to live is to wake up
each day and understand that everything you have was just given
to you for today. And when he goes to sleep at night, he gives it
all back.
Lose this attachment to your possessions before THEY possess YOU...
Whoah, I'm getting very philosophical here. I really wanted to
give you some practical strategies for getting more success with
women.
What I'm trying to get across to you here is that you should avoid
becoming attached to your old ways of doing things
You can't even get attached to words...
Trust your own intelligence to figure out what an Alpha Man REALLY
is.
He's the next evolutionary step in your development.
And he's already inside of you. It just takes a little work to let this
instinct out so that you can become the COMPLETE you.
There are a lot of guys out there who haven't been able to open
themselves up to letting out this TRUE nature inside them. They
hide it behind "Politically Correct" B.S. about not hurting other
people's feelings, or being sensitive.
It's really a fear to let other people see the REAL you. The man
that wants to achieve.
The man that wants women in his life.
The man that wants monetary success.
The man that wants power over the forces of life that seem to
control him.
The man that wants to project and show his personality, not
cover it up with a bunch of phony lines and routines.
Forget about all this "Alpha" talk and just open your mind up to
finding this part of you that isn't held back by fear, and is ready
to reach out for understanding that could - and will - change your
life for the better.
So on one hand we have the lowly "average guy", or non-Alpha. He's
a little insecure, possibly low self-esteem, but he really WANTS
to grow and change.
On the other hand we have the Alpha, the confident and
assertive man with healthy communication and
self-esteem.
There is only one direction of growth here, and it's
from the Chump to the Alpha.
What is the Alpha?
I'll tell you more about it your next lesson...
Your friend,
The Secrets of the Alpha Man program is THE map to finding yours. How to be sexual and turn her on.
Carlos Xuma
Dating Advice for Men
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